25 Books like The Flow

Mate

by Tucker Max • 2015

The anti-pickup guide: build the health, mind, and character that attract women without games.

4.09

1k+

💕 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Help 🛡️ Healthy Masculinity

Mate 98%

The anti-pickup guide: build the health, mind, and character that attract women without games.

by Tucker Max 2015

4.09

1k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Help 🛡️ Healthy Masculinity

The Dating Playbook For Men

by Andrew Ferebee • 2015

The self-reliant, emotionally present man attracts more than any line. A system that builds him.

4.06

516

📋 Dating Advice 🧠 Inner Game 🦁 Masculine Energy

The Dating Playbook For Men 97%

The self-reliant, emotionally present man attracts more than any line. A system that builds him.

by Andrew Ferebee 2015

4.06

516 ratings

📋 Dating Advice 🧠 Inner Game 🦁 Masculine Energy

The Natural

by Richard La Ruina • 2012

Overcome social anxiety and attract women using daily drills and a three-part persona system.

3.75

816

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The Natural 97%

Overcome social anxiety and attract women using daily drills and a three-part persona system.

by Richard La Ruina 2012

3.75

816 ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🎩 Pickup Artistry 😎 Social Confidence

Magic Bullets

by Nick Savoy • 2015

From first glance to intimacy: the stepwise model built on fundamentals that outlast any system.

3.79

108

💑 Dating For Men 🎯 Pickup Artistry 🧠 Attraction Psychology

Magic Bullets 97%

From first glance to intimacy: the stepwise model built on fundamentals that outlast any system.

by Nick Savoy 2015

3.79

108 ratings

💑 Dating For Men 🎯 Pickup Artistry 🧠 Attraction Psychology

How to Text a Girl

by Chase Amante • 2016

Most men text themselves out of dates. The fix is one simple priority shift.

4.03

165

🧑 Men'S Dating 📱 Text Game 🧊 Non-Neediness

How to Text a Girl 97%

Most men text themselves out of dates. The fix is one simple priority shift.

by Chase Amante 2016

4.03

165 ratings

🧑 Men'S Dating 📱 Text Game 🧊 Non-Neediness

Get Inside Her

by Marni Kinrys • 2013

The inside access most men never get: what women want, from a woman who tells all.

3.76

248

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Attraction Psychology 💞 Emotional Connection

Get Inside Her 97%

The inside access most men never get: what women want, from a woman who tells all.

by Marni Kinrys 2013

3.76

248 ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Attraction Psychology 💞 Emotional Connection

ApocalipSex

by Mario Luna • 2011

Attraction has two parts: being a winner, and making her earn you. Ten rules for both.

3.89

149

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ApocalipSex 97%

Attraction has two parts: being a winner, and making her earn you. Ten rules for both.

by Mario Luna 2011

3.89

149 ratings

🎯 Seduction Guides 🎭 Pickup Artistry 💪 Male Self-Improvement

Atomic Attraction

by Christopher Canwell • 2017

Distance fuels desire; pursuit kills it. A roadmap for men who over-invest and get ghosted.

4.08

1k+

💕 Dating Advice 🏋️ Male Self-Improvement 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Atomic Attraction 97%

Distance fuels desire; pursuit kills it. A roadmap for men who over-invest and get ghosted.

by Christopher Canwell 2017

4.08

1k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🏋️ Male Self-Improvement 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

How to Talk to Hot Women

by Mehow • 2013

Why being the nice guy fails: a system of push-pull teasing that makes her chase.

3.64

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💬 Conversation Skills 👤 Male Self-Improvement

How to Talk to Hot Women 97%

Why being the nice guy fails: a system of push-pull teasing that makes her chase.

by Mehow 2013

3.64

45 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💬 Conversation Skills 👤 Male Self-Improvement

How to Quit Being a Loser With Women

by Marc Summers • 2014

Women respond to signals, not words. The traits that spark attraction are silent and trainable.

3.75

💘 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Improvement 🦁 Confidence Building

How to Quit Being a Loser With Women Summary

How to Quit Being a Loser With Women 97%

Women respond to signals, not words. The traits that spark attraction are silent and trainable.

by Marc Summers 2014

3.75

16 ratings

💘 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Improvement 🦁 Confidence Building

The Mystery Method

by Mystery • 2007

Attraction runs on status, not looks. A magician's blueprint for meeting women out of your league.

3.77

3k+

🎯 Pickup Artistry 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🗣️ Social Confidence

The Mystery Method 97%

Attraction runs on status, not looks. A magician's blueprint for meeting women out of your league.

by Mystery 2007

3.77

3k+ ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🗣️ Social Confidence

Day Bang

by Roosh V. • 2011

Why the best daytime opener sounds like a question your grandfather would ask a stranger.

3.57

283

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Day Bang 97%

Why the best daytime opener sounds like a question your grandfather would ask a stranger.

by Roosh V. 2011

3.57

283 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 🧊 Cold Approach 👤 Dating For Men

What Women Want When They Test Men

by Bruce Bryans • 2014

Women constantly test for backbone and heart. The honest response that builds attraction.

4.19

631

💕 Dating Advice 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🚧 Personal Boundaries

What Women Want When They Test Men Summary

What Women Want When They Test Men 97%

Women constantly test for backbone and heart. The honest response that builds attraction.

by Bruce Bryans 2014

4.19

631 ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🚧 Personal Boundaries

Alpha Male Strategies

by AMS Alpha Male Strategies • 2018

Purpose makes you irresistible. The playbook for attracting women without chasing them.

4.37

421

🗓️ Dating Advice 🎯 Pickup Artistry 💊 Red Pill

Alpha Male Strategies 97%

Purpose makes you irresistible. The playbook for attracting women without chasing them.

by AMS Alpha Male Strategies 2018

4.37

421 ratings

🗓️ Dating Advice 🎯 Pickup Artistry 💊 Red Pill

The Pickup Artist

by Mystery • 2010

The pickup field manual: attraction as a practiced skill, broken into repeatable rules and drills.

3.48

351

🎯 Pickup Artistry 👤 Dating For Men 👥 Social Dynamics

The Pickup Artist 97%

The pickup field manual: attraction as a practiced skill, broken into repeatable rules and drills.

by Mystery 2010

3.48

351 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 👤 Dating For Men 👥 Social Dynamics

Bang

by Roosh V. • 2007

Your approach anxiety is old wiring you can override. A systematic pipeline from frozen to skilled.

3.56

559

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Bang 97%

Your approach anxiety is old wiring you can override. A systematic pipeline from frozen to skilled.

by Roosh V. 2007

3.56

559 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 🚶 Cold Approach 🛡️ Rejection Reframing

How to Become an Alpha Male

by John Alexander • 2005

Stop chasing. The body language, eye contact, and conversation shifts that make women pursue you.

3.77

311

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💪 Dating For Men 🔄 Social Dynamics

How to Become an Alpha Male 97%

Stop chasing. The body language, eye contact, and conversation shifts that make women pursue you.

by John Alexander 2005

3.77

311 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💪 Dating For Men 🔄 Social Dynamics

How To Flirt With Women & Get What You Want

by Ryan Harris • 2017

Approach anxiety is a habit, not a sentence. The daily program that turns it into attraction.

2.92

💘 Dating Advice 😉 Flirting 🧩 Social Skills

How To Flirt With Women & Get What You Want Summary

How To Flirt With Women & Get What You Want 97%

Approach anxiety is a habit, not a sentence. The daily program that turns it into attraction.

by Ryan Harris 2017

2.92

25 ratings

💘 Dating Advice 😉 Flirting 🧩 Social Skills

Oooooh . . . Say It Again

by Alan Roger Currie • 2011

Much of what feels like rejection is really her conscience fighting her own desire.

4.33

185

🧔 Male Dating Advice 🗣️ Sexual Frankness ⚡ Erotic Tension

Oooooh . . . Say It Again 97%

Much of what feels like rejection is really her conscience fighting her own desire.

by Alan Roger Currie 2011

4.33

185 ratings

🧔 Male Dating Advice 🗣️ Sexual Frankness ⚡ Erotic Tension

The Layguide

by Tony Clink • 2004

The internet's early seduction playbook: cold approach, backhanded compliments, scripted arousal.

3.19

143

🏹 Seduction Techniques 🎩 Pickup Artistry 🧠 Neuro-Linguistic Programming

The Layguide 97%

The internet's early seduction playbook: cold approach, backhanded compliments, scripted arousal.

by Tony Clink 2004

3.19

143 ratings

🏹 Seduction Techniques 🎩 Pickup Artistry 🧠 Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Bad Boys Finish First

by Dominic Mann • 2016

Why women lose interest in nice men, and the confidence behaviors that build attraction instead.

4.21

161

🎯 Seduction Guides 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧔 Male Self-Help

Bad Boys Finish First 96%

Why women lose interest in nice men, and the confidence behaviors that build attraction instead.

by Dominic Mann 2016

4.21

161 ratings

🎯 Seduction Guides 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧔 Male Self-Help

The Possibility of Sex

by Alan Roger Currie • 2012

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

4.34

134

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

The Possibility of Sex 96%

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

by Alan Roger Currie 2012

4.34

134 ratings

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

Make Her Chase You

by Tynan • 2008

Chasing fails. Confidence, storytelling, and high standards put her in pursuit instead.

3.39

110

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💝 Dating Advice 💪 Confidence Building

Make Her Chase You 96%

Chasing fails. Confidence, storytelling, and high standards put her in pursuit instead.

by Tynan 2008

3.39

110 ratings

🎯 Pickup Artistry 💝 Dating Advice 💪 Confidence Building

Get the Guy

by Matthew Hussey • 2013

A coach who trained 10,000 men reveals what actually makes them approach, commit, and stay.

3.97

5k+

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 📱 Modern Dating

Get the Guy 96%

A coach who trained 10,000 men reveals what actually makes them approach, commit, and stay.

by Matthew Hussey 2013

3.97

5k+ ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 📱 Modern Dating

Flirtology

by Jean Smith • 2018

Flirting is a learned skill, not a genetic gift. The rules for practicing it without fear.

3.97

238

🎯 Dating Advice 💪 Social Confidence 😏 Flirting Skills

Flirtology 96%

Flirting is a learned skill, not a genetic gift. The rules for practicing it without fear.

by Jean Smith 2018

3.97

238 ratings

🎯 Dating Advice 💪 Social Confidence 😏 Flirting Skills

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