💔 Infidelity Studies

Scholarly or deeply researched explorations of why people cheat, drawing on psychology, sociology, and cultural analysis to understand one of humanity's most persistent transgressions.

The State of Affairs

by Esther Perel • 2017

Happy couples have affairs. What that reveals about love, desire, and monogamy.

4.36

24k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔥 Sexual Desire

The State of Affairs 92%

Happy couples have affairs. What that reveals about love, desire, and monogamy.

by Esther Perel 2017

4.36

24k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔥 Sexual Desire

Private Lies

by Frank Pittman • 1989

The affair is not the sex. It's the secret. And the secret is a power play.

4.01

🔥 Infidelity 🛋️ Marital Therapy 💔 Trust And Betrayal

Private Lies 91%

The affair is not the sex. It's the secret. And the secret is a power play.

by Frank Pittman 1989

4.01

76 ratings

🔥 Infidelity 🛋️ Marital Therapy 💔 Trust And Betrayal

Not "Just Friends"

by Shirley P. Glass • 2002

Most affairs start as friendships. A clinical road map for rebuilding trust after discovery.

4.24

1k+

🩹 Infidelity Recovery 🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Emotional Affairs

Not "Just Friends" 90%

Most affairs start as friendships. A clinical road map for rebuilding trust after discovery.

by Shirley P. Glass 2002

4.24

1k+ ratings

🩹 Infidelity Recovery 🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Emotional Affairs

After the Affair

by Janis Abrahms Spring • 1996

You can rebuild after an affair, but forgiveness must be earned through sacrifice, not words.

4.04

1k+

💔 Infidelity Recovery 👥 Couples Therapy 🔒 Trust Rebuilding

After the Affair 90%

You can rebuild after an affair, but forgiveness must be earned through sacrifice, not words.

by Janis Abrahms Spring 1996

4.04

1k+ ratings

💔 Infidelity Recovery 👥 Couples Therapy 🔒 Trust Rebuilding

Hedges

by Jerry B. Jenkins • 2005

Christians stray at the same rate as everyone. Ten rules that make cheating nearly impossible.

3.95

276

🛡️ Infidelity Prevention 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔥 Sexual Temptation

Hedges 90%

Christians stray at the same rate as everyone. Ten rules that make cheating nearly impossible.

by Jerry B. Jenkins 2005

3.95

276 ratings

🛡️ Infidelity Prevention 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔥 Sexual Temptation

Anatomy of Love

by Helen Fisher • 1992

Your brain runs three separate love systems, and they aren't designed to work in your favor.

3.88

2k+

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🦴 Biological Anthropology 💑 Pair Bonding

Anatomy of Love 90%

Your brain runs three separate love systems, and they aren't designed to work in your favor.

by Helen Fisher 1992

3.88

2k+ ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🦴 Biological Anthropology 💑 Pair Bonding

Untrue

by Wednesday Martin • 2018

The plough, not biology, invented female monogamy. Inside the science that rewrites female lust.

3.86

2k+

🦋 Female Sexuality 💔 Infidelity 🔓 Non-Monogamy

Untrue 90%

The plough, not biology, invented female monogamy. Inside the science that rewrites female lust.

by Wednesday Martin 2018

3.86

2k+ ratings

🦋 Female Sexuality 💔 Infidelity 🔓 Non-Monogamy

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair

by Linda J. MacDonald • 2010

For the unfaithful: own the damage, live transparently, and accept the pace your spouse sets.

4.36

482

💔 Infidelity Recovery 🔧 Marriage Repair 🧱 Rebuilding Trust

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair Summary

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair 89%

For the unfaithful: own the damage, live transparently, and accept the pace your spouse sets.

by Linda J. MacDonald 2010

4.36

482 ratings

💔 Infidelity Recovery 🔧 Marriage Repair 🧱 Rebuilding Trust

Sperm Wars

by Robin Baker • 1996

The bedroom is an evolutionary arena. Your body knows the rules, even if you don't.

3.91

3k+

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🧬 Sperm Competition 💔 Infidelity

Sperm Wars 89%

The bedroom is an evolutionary arena. Your body knows the rules, even if you don't.

by Robin Baker 1996

3.91

3k+ ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🧬 Sperm Competition 💔 Infidelity

The Truth

by Neil Strauss • 2015

He was a master of seduction. His real problem: he couldn't let anyone get close.

4.11

8k+

🧩 Non-Monogamy 🔗 Sex Addiction 🧸 Childhood Trauma

The Truth 89%

He was a master of seduction. His real problem: he couldn't let anyone get close.

by Neil Strauss 2015

4.11

8k+ ratings

🧩 Non-Monogamy 🔗 Sex Addiction 🧸 Childhood Trauma

Surviving an Affair

by Willard F. Harley Jr. • 1998

End the affair. Rebuild trust. Restore the love. A blueprint for surviving infidelity.

4.06

161

💍 Marriage Counseling 💔 Infidelity Recovery 🔨 Trust Rebuilding

Surviving an Affair 89%

End the affair. Rebuild trust. Restore the love. A blueprint for surviving infidelity.

by Willard F. Harley Jr. 1998

4.06

161 ratings

💍 Marriage Counseling 💔 Infidelity Recovery 🔨 Trust Rebuilding

Healing from Infidelity

by Michele Weiner-Davis • 2017

Eighteen months to a new marriage: a therapist's plan to survive infidelity and come out stronger.

4.41

339

💔 Infidelity Recovery 💑 Marriage Repair 🔒 Rebuilding Trust

Healing from Infidelity 89%

Eighteen months to a new marriage: a therapist's plan to survive infidelity and come out stronger.

by Michele Weiner-Davis 2017

4.41

339 ratings

💔 Infidelity Recovery 💑 Marriage Repair 🔒 Rebuilding Trust

How To Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton • 2012

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

3.47

6k+

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism

How To Think More About Sex 89%

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

by Alain de Botton 2012

3.47

6k+ ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism

Mating in Captivity

by Esther Perel • 2006

Love wants closeness. Lust wants distance. A couples therapist on the clash that deadens bedrooms.

4.17

50k+

🔥 Erotic Desire 💑 Couples Therapy ⚡ Intimacy And Desire

Mating in Captivity 88%

Love wants closeness. Lust wants distance. A couples therapist on the clash that deadens bedrooms.

by Esther Perel 2006

4.17

50k+ ratings

🔥 Erotic Desire 💑 Couples Therapy ⚡ Intimacy And Desire

The Ethical Slut

by Janet W. Hardy • 1997

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

3.94

28k+

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management

The Ethical Slut 88%

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

by Janet W. Hardy 1997

3.94

28k+ ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management

The Betrayal Bind

by Michelle Mays • 2023

Betrayed partners aren't codependent. Their chaos is predictable biology, and the wound is healable.

4.59

458

💔 Infidelity Recovery ⚡ Betrayal Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

The Betrayal Bind 88%

Betrayed partners aren't codependent. Their chaos is predictable biology, and the wound is healable.

by Michelle Mays 2023

4.59

458 ratings

💔 Infidelity Recovery ⚡ Betrayal Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire

by Daniel Bergner • 2013

The machines don't lie: women's desire is far more indiscriminate than we admit.

3.60

2k+

🎯 Female Desire 🔬 Sex Research ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire Summary

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire 88%

The machines don't lie: women's desire is far more indiscriminate than we admit.

by Daniel Bergner 2013

3.60

2k+ ratings

🎯 Female Desire 🔬 Sex Research ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Anatomy of an Affair

by Dave Carder • 2008

Affairs do not start in bedrooms. They start in the gaps your marriage quietly accepts.

3.93

275

🛋️ Marriage Counseling 💔 Infidelity Recovery 🧱 Emotional Boundaries

Anatomy of an Affair 88%

Affairs do not start in bedrooms. They start in the gaps your marriage quietly accepts.

by Dave Carder 2008

3.93

275 ratings

🛋️ Marriage Counseling 💔 Infidelity Recovery 🧱 Emotional Boundaries

The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

by Sonya Rhodes • 2014

Why accomplished women struggle in love, and the partner choice that changes everything.

3.51

170

💪 Assertive Women 👩‍💼 High-Achieving Women 🎭 Personality Spectrum

The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match 88%

Why accomplished women struggle in love, and the partner choice that changes everything.

by Sonya Rhodes 2014

3.51

170 ratings

💪 Assertive Women 👩‍💼 High-Achieving Women 🎭 Personality Spectrum

Designer Relationships

by Mark A. Michaels • 2015

Stop inheriting your relationship model. Design one that actually fits.

3.68

854

🔓 Ethical Nonmonogamy ✏️ Relationship Design 🗣️ Radical Honesty

Designer Relationships 88%

Stop inheriting your relationship model. Design one that actually fits.

by Mark A. Michaels 2015

3.68

854 ratings

🔓 Ethical Nonmonogamy ✏️ Relationship Design 🗣️ Radical Honesty

Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

by Tracy Schorn • 2016

Infidelity is abuse. A survivor's guide to cutting ties, seeing clearly, and reclaiming your life.

4.70

2k+

🩹 Infidelity Recovery 💔 Betrayal Trauma 🪞 Narcissistic Abuse

Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life 88%

Infidelity is abuse. A survivor's guide to cutting ties, seeing clearly, and reclaiming your life.

by Tracy Schorn 2016

4.70

2k+ ratings

🩹 Infidelity Recovery 💔 Betrayal Trauma 🪞 Narcissistic Abuse

The Evolution of Desire

by David M. Buss • 1994

Men chase youth, women status, neither consciously: the evolutionary logic of human desire.

4.17

4k+

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Human Mating 🦚 Sexual Selection

The Evolution of Desire 88%

Men chase youth, women status, neither consciously: the evolutionary logic of human desire.

by David M. Buss 1994

4.17

4k+ ratings

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Human Mating 🦚 Sexual Selection

Three Women

by Lisa Taddeo • 2019

Female desire without the performance: eight years inside three ordinary women's most private lives.

3.71

174k+

🔥 Female Desire 📋 Immersive Journalism 💔 Sexual Trauma

Three Women 88%

Female desire without the performance: eight years inside three ordinary women's most private lives.

by Lisa Taddeo 2019

3.71

174k+ ratings

🔥 Female Desire 📋 Immersive Journalism 💔 Sexual Trauma

More Than Two

by Franklin Veaux • 2014

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

4.23

5k+

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management

More Than Two 88%

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

by Franklin Veaux 2014

4.23

5k+ ratings

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management

Sex Matters

by Mona Charen • 2018

Feminism won, yet women's happiness declined for fifty years. The data explains why.

3.71

331

🔍 Feminism Critique 🧬 Sex Differences 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology

Sex Matters 88%

Feminism won, yet women's happiness declined for fifty years. The data explains why.

by Mona Charen 2018

3.71

331 ratings

🔍 Feminism Critique 🧬 Sex Differences 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology

Opening Up

by Tristan Taormino • 2007

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

4.07

4k+

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management

Opening Up 88%

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

by Tristan Taormino 2007

4.07

4k+ ratings

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management

The New Naked

by Harry Fisch MD • 2014

Good sex is a learned skill, and your sex life reveals your relationship's health.

2.93

162

💬 Couples Communication 🥀 Low Desire 🔞 Pornography Effects

The New Naked 88%

Good sex is a learned skill, and your sex life reveals your relationship's health.

by Harry Fisch MD 2014

2.93

162 ratings

💬 Couples Communication 🥀 Low Desire 🔞 Pornography Effects

10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy

by Julie Schwartz Gottman • 2014

Three minutes of conflict predict a couple's future. The clinical playbook for changing the outcome.

4.30

720

💑 Couples Therapy 📊 Evidence-Based Therapy 💬 Conflict Resolution

10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy Summary

10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy 88%

Three minutes of conflict predict a couple's future. The clinical playbook for changing the outcome.

by Julie Schwartz Gottman 2014

4.30

720 ratings

💑 Couples Therapy 📊 Evidence-Based Therapy 💬 Conflict Resolution

The Science of Trust

by John M. Gottman • 2011

Game theory measures trust as a number. The calculation starts with who benefits when you lose.

4.10

1k+

🔬 Relationship Science 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🎲 Game Theory

The Science of Trust 88%

Game theory measures trust as a number. The calculation starts with who benefits when you lose.

by John M. Gottman 2011

4.10

1k+ ratings

🔬 Relationship Science 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🎲 Game Theory

His Needs, Her Needs

by Willard F. Harley Jr. • 1986

Your marriage runs on a hidden scoreboard. Affairs begin when your spouse's balance hits zero.

4.11

23k+

🛋️ Marriage Counseling 💭 Emotional Needs ⚧️ Gender Differences

His Needs, Her Needs 88%

Your marriage runs on a hidden scoreboard. Affairs begin when your spouse's balance hits zero.

by Willard F. Harley Jr. 1986

4.11

23k+ ratings

🛋️ Marriage Counseling 💭 Emotional Needs ⚧️ Gender Differences

Ho Tactics

by G.L. Lambert • 2014

Most women auction their attention for dinner and Netflix. Here is the counteroffer.

3.92

816

🔝 Hypergamy 🎯 Seduction Tactics 💰 Sexual Economics

Ho Tactics 88%

Most women auction their attention for dinner and Netflix. Here is the counteroffer.

by G.L. Lambert 2014

3.92

816 ratings

🔝 Hypergamy 🎯 Seduction Tactics 💰 Sexual Economics

What Makes Love Last

by John M. Gottman • 2012

A researcher found which couples survive betrayal and which do not. Three steps separate them.

4.23

3k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🏗️ Trust Building

What Makes Love Last 88%

A researcher found which couples survive betrayal and which do not. Three steps separate them.

by John M. Gottman 2012

4.23

3k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🏗️ Trust Building

Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love

by Allan Pease • 2021

Men chase youth, women chase resources. Here is how to use that knowledge to find your match.

4.30

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology ❤️ Mate Selection ♂️♀️ Sex Differences

Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love Summary

Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love 88%

Men chase youth, women chase resources. Here is how to use that knowledge to find your match.

by Allan Pease 2021

4.30

27 ratings

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology ❤️ Mate Selection ♂️♀️ Sex Differences

The Rational Male – Religion

by Rollo Tomassi • 2021

Churches were quietly rebuilt around women's interests. For men, the bill is everything they have.

4.30

309

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💪 Masculinity Crisis ⚖️ Critique Of Feminism

The Rational Male – Religion 88%

Churches were quietly rebuilt around women's interests. For men, the bill is everything they have.

by Rollo Tomassi 2021

4.30

309 ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💪 Masculinity Crisis ⚖️ Critique Of Feminism

Sex by Numbers

by David Spiegelhalter • 2015

Sex surveys are performances. A statistician reveals what the data hides about modern desire.

3.84

213

🔄 Modern Sexuality 🔬 Sex Research 💥 Debunking Myths

Sex by Numbers 88%

Sex surveys are performances. A statistician reveals what the data hides about modern desire.

by David Spiegelhalter 2015

3.84

213 ratings

🔄 Modern Sexuality 🔬 Sex Research 💥 Debunking Myths

Sex from Scratch

by Sarah Mirk • 2014

The relationship rulebook is optional. How to write your own, from singleness to parting.

3.76

655

🪢 Ethical Non-Monogamy ✏️ Relationship Design ✊ Intersectional Feminism

Sex from Scratch 88%

The relationship rulebook is optional. How to write your own, from singleness to parting.

by Sarah Mirk 2014

3.76

655 ratings

🪢 Ethical Non-Monogamy ✏️ Relationship Design ✊ Intersectional Feminism

Dirty Minds

by Kayt Sukel • 2012

Romantic love activates the same brain circuits as cocaine. Heartbreak is neurological withdrawal.

3.55

447

🧠 Neuroscience Of Love 🔬 Relationship Science ⚗️ Neurochemistry

Dirty Minds 87%

Romantic love activates the same brain circuits as cocaine. Heartbreak is neurological withdrawal.

by Kayt Sukel 2012

3.55

447 ratings

🧠 Neuroscience Of Love 🔬 Relationship Science ⚗️ Neurochemistry

A Billion Wicked Thoughts

by Ogi Ogas • 2011

A billion anonymous searches expose the true architecture of male and female desire.

3.83

4k+

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Mate Selection 🔥 Sexual Desire

A Billion Wicked Thoughts 87%

A billion anonymous searches expose the true architecture of male and female desire.

by Ogi Ogas 2011

3.83

4k+ ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Mate Selection 🔥 Sexual Desire

The Manipulated Man

by Esther Vilar • 1971

Women trade sex for lifelong security; men mistake their chains for love. The 1971 polemic.

3.58

2k+

🔄 Gender Roles 💋 Sexual Politics ⚔️ Anti-Feminism

The Manipulated Man 87%

Women trade sex for lifelong security; men mistake their chains for love. The 1971 polemic.

by Esther Vilar 1971

3.58

2k+ ratings

🔄 Gender Roles 💋 Sexual Politics ⚔️ Anti-Feminism

The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire • 2021

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

4.54

7k+

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique

The Great Sex Rescue 87%

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire 2021

4.54

7k+ ratings

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique

The Widow's Guide to Dead Bastards

by Jessica Waite • 2024

Her husband died without warning. Then his phone revealed the stranger she'd been married to.

3.53

4k+

🪦 Grief Memoirs 🖤 Widowhood 💔 Infidelity

The Widow's Guide to Dead Bastards Summary

The Widow's Guide to Dead Bastards 87%

Her husband died without warning. Then his phone revealed the stranger she'd been married to.

by Jessica Waite 2024

3.53

4k+ ratings

🪦 Grief Memoirs 🖤 Widowhood 💔 Infidelity

The Art of Thinking Clearly

by Rolf Dobelli • 2011

Dating is a market with supply, demand, and currency. Learn the rules before you make a bad trade.

3.85

42k+

🧮 Sexual Economics 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 📈 Hypergamy

The Art of Thinking Clearly 87%

Dating is a market with supply, demand, and currency. Learn the rules before you make a bad trade.

by Rolf Dobelli 2011

3.85

42k+ ratings

🧮 Sexual Economics 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 📈 Hypergamy

Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal

by Kevin B. Skinner • 2017

Sexual betrayal triggers PTSD. A clinician's road map for rebuilding safety and trust.

4.41

💔 Betrayal Trauma 🩹 Infidelity Recovery 🧠 Trauma Therapy

Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal Summary

Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal 87%

Sexual betrayal triggers PTSD. A clinician's road map for rebuilding safety and trust.

by Kevin B. Skinner 2017

4.41

78 ratings

💔 Betrayal Trauma 🩹 Infidelity Recovery 🧠 Trauma Therapy

Why Women Have Sex

by Cindy M. Meston • 2009

Of 237 reasons women have sex, pleasure is just one. The full list is startling.

3.94

2k+

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology ♀️ Female Sexuality 💑 Mate Selection

Why Women Have Sex 87%

Of 237 reasons women have sex, pleasure is just one. The full list is startling.

by Cindy M. Meston 2009

3.94

2k+ ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology ♀️ Female Sexuality 💑 Mate Selection

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again

by Katherine Angel • 2021

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

4.06

6k+

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again 87%

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

by Katherine Angel 2021

4.06

6k+ ratings

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire

Want

by Gillian Anderson • 2024

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

3.37

23k+

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality

Want 87%

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

by Gillian Anderson 2024

3.37

23k+ ratings

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality

The Misfits

by Colin Wilson • 1988

De Sade, Byron, and the 'perverts' who followed weren't just deviants but mystics chasing intensity.

3.69

121

🔗 Sexual Deviance 🧠 Philosophy Of Sex 📜 Cultural History

The Misfits 87%

De Sade, Byron, and the 'perverts' who followed weren't just deviants but mystics chasing intensity.

by Colin Wilson 1988

3.69

121 ratings

🔗 Sexual Deviance 🧠 Philosophy Of Sex 📜 Cultural History

Sex at Dawn

by Christopher Ryan • 2010

Monogamy is a recent agricultural invention. Our bodies and desires never agreed to it.

3.97

32k+

🧬 Human Sexuality 🦚 Sexual Selection 💞 Non-Monogamy

Sex at Dawn 87%

Monogamy is a recent agricultural invention. Our bodies and desires never agreed to it.

by Christopher Ryan 2010

3.97

32k+ ratings

🧬 Human Sexuality 🦚 Sexual Selection 💞 Non-Monogamy

The Possibility of Sex

by Alan Roger Currie • 2012

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

4.34

134

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

The Possibility of Sex 87%

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

by Alan Roger Currie 2012

4.34

134 ratings

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

Tell Me What You Want

by Justin J. Lehmiller • 2018

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

3.82

1k+

🔬 Sex Research 💭 Sexual Fantasy 😔 Sexual Shame

Tell Me What You Want 87%

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

by Justin J. Lehmiller 2018

3.82

1k+ ratings

🔬 Sex Research 💭 Sexual Fantasy 😔 Sexual Shame

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