22 Books like Secure Relating

The Power of Attachment

by Diane Poole Heller • 2019

Your childhood wired your relationship patterns. Skills to rewire them for lasting intimacy.

4.26

3k+

🧸 Attachment Theory 💑 Adult Attachment Styles 🩹 Healing Attachment Wounds

The Power of Attachment 97%

Your childhood wired your relationship patterns. Skills to rewire them for lasting intimacy.

by Diane Poole Heller 2019

4.26

3k+ ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 💑 Adult Attachment Styles 🩹 Healing Attachment Wounds

Condenados a entendernos

by Arun Mansukhani • 2023

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

4.42

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation

Condenados a entendernos 97%

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

by Arun Mansukhani 2023

4.42

95 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation

The New Rules of Attachment

by Judy Ho • 2024

Your attachment style doesn't just shape your relationships; it caps your vision of what's possible.

4.26

204

🧠 Attachment Theory 👥 Adult Attachment 💔 Inner Child Healing

The New Rules of Attachment 96%

Your attachment style doesn't just shape your relationships; it caps your vision of what's possible.

by Judy Ho 2024

4.26

204 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 👥 Adult Attachment 💔 Inner Child Healing

Insecure in Love

by Leslie Becker-Phelps • 2014

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

3.92

3k+

🧠 Attachment Theory 😰 Anxious Attachment 💗 Self Compassion

Insecure in Love 96%

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

by Leslie Becker-Phelps 2014

3.92

3k+ ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 😰 Anxious Attachment 💗 Self Compassion

Body-First Healing

by Brittany Piper • 2025

Talk therapy alone can’t reach trauma held in the body. The somatic path out.

4.03

348

🧠 Somatic Experiencing 🎢 Polyvagal Theory 🔗 Attachment Repair

Body-First Healing 96%

Talk therapy alone can’t reach trauma held in the body. The somatic path out.

by Brittany Piper 2025

4.03

348 ratings

🧠 Somatic Experiencing 🎢 Polyvagal Theory 🔗 Attachment Repair

Attachment Theory

by Thais Gibson • 2020

Before age eight, trust wounds get wired in like hypnosis. The tools to uninstall them.

3.92

1k+

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Psychology 🧒 Inner Child Work

Attachment Theory 96%

Before age eight, trust wounds get wired in like hypnosis. The tools to uninstall them.

by Thais Gibson 2020

3.92

1k+ ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Psychology 🧒 Inner Child Work

The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy

by Deb Dana • 2018

Three neural pathways drive your reactions. Map your way from shutdown back to connection.

4.35

2k+

🩺 Trauma Therapy 🧠 Somatic Psychology ⚡ Nervous System Regulation

The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy 96%

Three neural pathways drive your reactions. Map your way from shutdown back to connection.

by Deb Dana 2018

4.35

2k+ ratings

🩺 Trauma Therapy 🧠 Somatic Psychology ⚡ Nervous System Regulation

Healing Developmental Trauma

by Laurence Heller • 2012

Childhood survival strategies harden into adult identity. A somatic method for softening them.

4.26

2k+

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🌱 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Somatic Therapy

Healing Developmental Trauma 96%

Childhood survival strategies harden into adult identity. A somatic method for softening them.

by Laurence Heller 2012

4.26

2k+ ratings

🧒 Childhood Trauma 🌱 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Somatic Therapy

Anxiously Attached

by Jessica Baum LMHC • 2022

Anxious attachment puts your younger self in charge. The boundary skills that break the cycle.

4.01

4k+

🔗 Attachment Theory 💔 Anxious Attachment 🧒 Inner Child Work

Anxiously Attached 96%

Anxious attachment puts your younger self in charge. The boundary skills that break the cycle.

by Jessica Baum LMHC 2022

4.01

4k+ ratings

🔗 Attachment Theory 💔 Anxious Attachment 🧒 Inner Child Work

Master Your Attachment Style

by Scott A Young • 2021

Four ways people push love away. Learn yours, leverage its hidden strengths, and stop the pattern.

4.10

143

🧩 Attachment Theory ❤️ Relationship Psychology 🩹 Healing From Childhood Trauma

Master Your Attachment Style 96%

Four ways people push love away. Learn yours, leverage its hidden strengths, and stop the pattern.

by Scott A Young 2021

4.10

143 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory ❤️ Relationship Psychology 🩹 Healing From Childhood Trauma

Attachment Theory in Practice

by Susan M. Johnson EdD • 2018

A five-move clinical method for using emotion, not insight, to reshape how clients attach to others.

4.33

670

🔗 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💭 Emotion Processing

Attachment Theory in Practice 96%

A five-move clinical method for using emotion, not insight, to reshape how clients attach to others.

by Susan M. Johnson EdD 2018

4.33

670 ratings

🔗 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💭 Emotion Processing

A General Theory of Love

by Thomas Lewis • 2000

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

4.10

5k+

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection

A General Theory of Love 96%

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

by Thomas Lewis 2000

4.10

5k+ ratings

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice

by Jon G. Allen • 2008

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

4.31

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice Summary

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice 96%

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

by Jon G. Allen 2008

4.31

39 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation

How to Make Millions with Your Ideas

by Dan S. Kennedy • 1996

The body remembers what the mind tries to forget, and that's why talking isn't enough.

3.92

7k+

🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Somatic Psychology 👶 Attachment Theory

How to Make Millions with Your Ideas Summary

How to Make Millions with Your Ideas 96%

The body remembers what the mind tries to forget, and that's why talking isn't enough.

by Dan S. Kennedy 1996

3.92

7k+ ratings

🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧠 Somatic Psychology 👶 Attachment Theory

by Terrence Real • 2022

Your relationship fights replay childhood wounds. A guide to the adult self that breaks the loop.

4.24

4k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Relational Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

Us 96%

Your relationship fights replay childhood wounds. A guide to the adult self that breaks the loop.

by Terrence Real 2022

4.24

4k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Relational Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *

by Philippa Perry • 2023

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

3.79

6k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * Summary

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * 96%

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

by Philippa Perry 2023

3.79

6k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

The Power of Discord

by Ed Tronick • 2020

Seventy percent of interactions are out of sync, and that mismatch fuels intimacy and trust.

4.14

320

🧠 Developmental Psychology 🔧 Rupture And Repair 🫂 Co-Regulation

The Power of Discord 96%

Seventy percent of interactions are out of sync, and that mismatch fuels intimacy and trust.

by Ed Tronick 2020

4.14

320 ratings

🧠 Developmental Psychology 🔧 Rupture And Repair 🫂 Co-Regulation

How to Do the Work

by Dr. Nicole LePera • 2021

Your patterns aren't you. They're survival responses your nervous system never learned to turn off.

4.13

35k+

🧘 Somatic Healing 🧠 Nervous System Regulation 👶 Reparenting

How to Do the Work 96%

Your patterns aren't you. They're survival responses your nervous system never learned to turn off.

by Dr. Nicole LePera 2021

4.13

35k+ ratings

🧘 Somatic Healing 🧠 Nervous System Regulation 👶 Reparenting

Embracing Shame

by Bret Lyon • 2023

The feeling you've spent a lifetime avoiding might be your most underrated teacher.

4.10

141

🩹 Shame Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 🧠 Polyvagal Theory

Embracing Shame 96%

The feeling you've spent a lifetime avoiding might be your most underrated teacher.

by Bret Lyon 2023

4.10

141 ratings

🩹 Shame Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 🧠 Polyvagal Theory

Attachment-Focused EMDR

by Laurel Parnell • 2013

EMDR for attachment wounds takes more: resource the client, find the root, let relationship rebuild.

4.49

306

🧒 Attachment Theory 👁️ Emdr Therapy 🌱 Developmental Trauma

Attachment-Focused EMDR 96%

EMDR for attachment wounds takes more: resource the client, find the root, let relationship rebuild.

by Laurel Parnell 2013

4.49

306 ratings

🧒 Attachment Theory 👁️ Emdr Therapy 🌱 Developmental Trauma

Daring to Trust

by David Richo • 2010

The attachment wounds that make trust impossible, and the Buddhist practices that repair them.

3.96

805

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Intimate Relationships 🧘 Mindfulness Practice

Daring to Trust 96%

The attachment wounds that make trust impossible, and the Buddhist practices that repair them.

by David Richo 2010

3.96

805 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Intimate Relationships 🧘 Mindfulness Practice

Setting Boundaries That Stick

by Juliane Taylor Shore • 2023

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

4.32

260

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion

Setting Boundaries That Stick 95%

Boundaries fail when you feel unsafe. Rewire your brain's threat response, and the words stick.

by Juliane Taylor Shore 2023

4.32

260 ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology 💗 Self-Compassion

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