26 Books like Secure Love

Hold Me Tight

by Sue Johnson • 2008

Recurring fights are attachment cries. The conversation that moves past blame and repairs the bond.

4.12

23k+

🧠 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💑 Couples Therapy

Hold Me Tight 98%

Recurring fights are attachment cries. The conversation that moves past blame and repairs the bond.

by Sue Johnson 2008

4.12

23k+ ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💑 Couples Therapy

The Power of Attachment

by Diane Poole Heller • 2019

Your childhood wired your relationship patterns. Skills to rewire them for lasting intimacy.

4.26

3k+

🧸 Attachment Theory 💑 Adult Attachment Styles 🩹 Healing Attachment Wounds

The Power of Attachment 98%

Your childhood wired your relationship patterns. Skills to rewire them for lasting intimacy.

by Diane Poole Heller 2019

4.26

3k+ ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 💑 Adult Attachment Styles 🩹 Healing Attachment Wounds

We Do

by PsyD Stan Tatkin • 2018

A relationship system that shields you both from the world and from your own worst instincts.

4.18

493

🧠 Attachment Theory 💑 Couples Therapy 🛡️ Emotional Safety

We Do 98%

A relationship system that shields you both from the world and from your own worst instincts.

by PsyD Stan Tatkin 2018

4.18

493 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 💑 Couples Therapy 🛡️ Emotional Safety

Love Sense

by Sue Johnson • 2013

Romantic love is a hardwired survival system. Its rules are predictable, and science just proved it.

4.09

3k+

🧩 Attachment Theory 🔒 Attachment Styles 🛋️ Couples Therapy

Love Sense 98%

Romantic love is a hardwired survival system. Its rules are predictable, and science just proved it.

by Sue Johnson 2013

4.09

3k+ ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 🔒 Attachment Styles 🛋️ Couples Therapy

Your Brain on Love

by Stan Tatkin • 2013

Why your brain sees your partner as a threat, and the practices that turn conflict into connection.

4.33

1k+

💑 Couples Therapy 🧬 Attachment Theory 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology

Your Brain on Love 98%

Why your brain sees your partner as a threat, and the practices that turn conflict into connection.

by Stan Tatkin 2013

4.33

1k+ ratings

💑 Couples Therapy 🧬 Attachment Theory 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology

I Want This to Work

by Elizabeth Earnshaw • 2021

Stop having the same fight: a therapist's framework for fixing what the arguments are really about.

4.15

2k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory 🗣️ Communication Skills

I Want This to Work 97%

Stop having the same fight: a therapist's framework for fixing what the arguments are really about.

by Elizabeth Earnshaw 2021

4.15

2k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory 🗣️ Communication Skills

No More Fighting

by Alicia Muñoz • 2018

Twenty minutes a week to transform conflict into connection, without ever picking a side.

3.76

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory 🕊️ Nonviolent Communication

No More Fighting 97%

Twenty minutes a week to transform conflict into connection, without ever picking a side.

by Alicia Muñoz 2018

3.76

94 ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory 🕊️ Nonviolent Communication

Insecure in Love

by Leslie Becker-Phelps • 2014

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

3.92

3k+

🧠 Attachment Theory 😰 Anxious Attachment 💗 Self Compassion

Insecure in Love 97%

Why anxious attachment makes love feel unsafe, and self-compassion skills that slowly rewire it.

by Leslie Becker-Phelps 2014

3.92

3k+ ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 😰 Anxious Attachment 💗 Self Compassion

A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships

by Emily Nagoski • 2012

Your body's unspent stress is quietly destroying your relationship. Here is the off switch.

4.25

159

🫂 Romantic Partnerships 🗣️ Couples Communication 🧠 Emotional Regulation

A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships Summary

A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships 97%

Your body's unspent stress is quietly destroying your relationship. Here is the off switch.

by Emily Nagoski 2012

4.25

159 ratings

🫂 Romantic Partnerships 🗣️ Couples Communication 🧠 Emotional Regulation

Closer to Love

by Vex King • 2023

Love is a skill you build, not a feeling you fall into. The work starts with yourself.

3.89

1k+

💞 Romantic Relationships 🧩 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Closer to Love 97%

Love is a skill you build, not a feeling you fall into. The work starts with yourself.

by Vex King 2023

3.89

1k+ ratings

💞 Romantic Relationships 🧩 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Wired for Love

by Stan Tatkin • 2012

The neuroscience of secure relationships: how to become your partner's safest person.

4.09

7k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧩 Attachment Theory 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology

Wired for Love 97%

The neuroscience of secure relationships: how to become your partner's safest person.

by Stan Tatkin 2012

4.09

7k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧩 Attachment Theory 🧠 Interpersonal Neurobiology

The New Rules of Attachment

by Judy Ho • 2024

Your attachment style doesn't just shape your relationships; it caps your vision of what's possible.

4.26

204

🧠 Attachment Theory 👥 Adult Attachment 💔 Inner Child Healing

The New Rules of Attachment 97%

Your attachment style doesn't just shape your relationships; it caps your vision of what's possible.

by Judy Ho 2024

4.26

204 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 👥 Adult Attachment 💔 Inner Child Healing

Attachment Theory in Practice

by Susan M. Johnson EdD • 2018

A five-move clinical method for using emotion, not insight, to reshape how clients attach to others.

4.33

670

🔗 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💭 Emotion Processing

Attachment Theory in Practice 97%

A five-move clinical method for using emotion, not insight, to reshape how clients attach to others.

by Susan M. Johnson EdD 2018

4.33

670 ratings

🔗 Attachment Theory 🎯 Emotionally Focused Therapy 💭 Emotion Processing

Attachment Theory

by Thais Gibson • 2020

Before age eight, trust wounds get wired in like hypnosis. The tools to uninstall them.

3.92

1k+

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Psychology 🧒 Inner Child Work

Attachment Theory 97%

Before age eight, trust wounds get wired in like hypnosis. The tools to uninstall them.

by Thais Gibson 2020

3.92

1k+ ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Psychology 🧒 Inner Child Work

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It

by Patricia Love • 2007

Talking amplifies her fear and his shame. The real fix is presence, not words.

3.94

2k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💞 Emotional Attunement 🤫 Nonverbal Connection

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It Summary

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It 97%

Talking amplifies her fear and his shame. The real fix is presence, not words.

by Patricia Love 2007

3.94

2k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💞 Emotional Attunement 🤫 Nonverbal Connection

Condenados a entendernos

by Arun Mansukhani • 2023

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

4.42

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation

Condenados a entendernos 97%

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

by Arun Mansukhani 2023

4.42

95 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation

You Are the One You've Been Waiting For

by Richard C. Schwartz • 2008

Love keeps breaking because you're asking it to fix something only you can reach.

4.40

4k+

🧩 Parts Work 👶 Inner Child Work 🛋️ Couples Therapy

You Are the One You've Been Waiting For Summary

You Are the One You've Been Waiting For 97%

Love keeps breaking because you're asking it to fix something only you can reach.

by Richard C. Schwartz 2008

4.40

4k+ ratings

🧩 Parts Work 👶 Inner Child Work 🛋️ Couples Therapy

Getting the Love You Want

by Harville Hendrix • 2005

Your unconscious chose your partner to heal old wounds; learn the practice that makes it work.

4.05

15k+

💑 Couples Therapy 🧸 Childhood Wounds 🧒 Inner Child Healing

Getting the Love You Want 97%

Your unconscious chose your partner to heal old wounds; learn the practice that makes it work.

by Harville Hendrix 2005

4.05

15k+ ratings

💑 Couples Therapy 🧸 Childhood Wounds 🧒 Inner Child Healing

The Energies of Love

by Donna Eden • 2014

Arguments hijack your body's energy. Simple tapping routines to calm, reconnect, and stop spiraling.

4.26

132

🧬 Energy Medicine 💑 Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory

The Energies of Love 97%

Arguments hijack your body's energy. Simple tapping routines to calm, reconnect, and stop spiraling.

by Donna Eden 2014

4.26

132 ratings

🧬 Energy Medicine 💑 Couples Therapy 🔗 Attachment Theory

It's Not Me, It's You

by John Kim • 2022

Why intense chemistry is often a warning sign, and where real love truly begins.

4.23

872

🧩 Attachment Theory 🪢 Codependency Recovery 💗 Conscious Relationships

It's Not Me, It's You 97%

Why intense chemistry is often a warning sign, and where real love truly begins.

by John Kim 2022

4.23

872 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 🪢 Codependency Recovery 💗 Conscious Relationships

by Terrence Real • 2022

Your relationship fights replay childhood wounds. A guide to the adult self that breaks the loop.

4.24

4k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Relational Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

Us 96%

Your relationship fights replay childhood wounds. A guide to the adult self that breaks the loop.

by Terrence Real 2022

4.24

4k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 💔 Relational Trauma 🔗 Attachment Theory

The Inner Work of Relationships

by Mathew Micheletti • 2024

Your fights are symptoms of childhood wounds; healing them together is how conscious love is built.

4.27

279

🧒 Inner Child Work 💞 Conscious Relationships 🩹 Attachment Wounds

The Inner Work of Relationships 96%

Your fights are symptoms of childhood wounds; healing them together is how conscious love is built.

by Mathew Micheletti 2024

4.27

279 ratings

🧒 Inner Child Work 💞 Conscious Relationships 🩹 Attachment Wounds

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *

by Philippa Perry • 2023

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

3.79

6k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * Summary

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * 96%

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

by Philippa Perry 2023

3.79

6k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

Conscious Loving

by Gay Hendricks • 1990

Most couples don't break under conflict. They break when things get too good.

4.32

2k+

🫂 Couples Therapy 🩹 Relationship Healing ⚠️ Self-Sabotage

Conscious Loving 96%

Most couples don't break under conflict. They break when things get too good.

by Gay Hendricks 1990

4.32

2k+ ratings

🫂 Couples Therapy 🩹 Relationship Healing ⚠️ Self-Sabotage

How to Be an Adult in Relationships

by David Richo • 2002

Love's five non-negotiables, drawn from what you needed before you could ask.

4.10

8k+

💑 Conscious Partnership 🔗 Attachment Styles 😰 Intimacy Fears

How to Be an Adult in Relationships Summary

How to Be an Adult in Relationships 96%

Love's five non-negotiables, drawn from what you needed before you could ask.

by David Richo 2002

4.10

8k+ ratings

💑 Conscious Partnership 🔗 Attachment Styles 😰 Intimacy Fears

The New Rules of Marriage

by Terrence Real • 2007

Marriage expects more today, but nobody handed you the rule book. This is it.

4.17

1k+

💑 Married Couples 🧩 Relationship Skills 🤝 Conflict Resolution

The New Rules of Marriage 96%

Marriage expects more today, but nobody handed you the rule book. This is it.

by Terrence Real 2007

4.17

1k+ ratings

💑 Married Couples 🧩 Relationship Skills 🤝 Conflict Resolution

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