⚔️ Tension And Conflict

Stories that thrive on friction between characters, ideologies, or circumstances, using opposition as the engine that drives every scene forward.

Aikido in Everyday Life

by Terry Dobson • 1993

Stop meeting force with force. An Aikido master's guide to redirecting conflict until it dissolves.

3.86

176

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🥋 Martial Arts Wisdom 🎭 Interpersonal Dynamics 🧘 Centering Practices ☯️ Eastern Philosophy

Aikido in Everyday Life 88%

Stop meeting force with force. An Aikido master's guide to redirecting conflict until it dissolves.

by Terry Dobson 1993

3.86

176 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🥋 Martial Arts Wisdom 🎭 Interpersonal Dynamics 🧘 Centering Practices ☯️ Eastern Philosophy

Negotiating the Nonnegotiable

by Daniel Shapiro • 2016

Reason fails when identity is at stake. A framework for the conflicts that matter most.

3.86

831

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎭 Identity And Conflict 🤝 Reconciliation 👥 Tribalism 🏛️ Harvard Negotiation Project

Negotiating the Nonnegotiable 87%

Reason fails when identity is at stake. A framework for the conflicts that matter most.

by Daniel Shapiro 2016

3.86

831 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎭 Identity And Conflict 🤝 Reconciliation 👥 Tribalism 🏛️ Harvard Negotiation Project

Conflict Fluent

by Emily Taylor • 2021

Every conflict you face gets the same response. There are four other options worth learning.

4.33

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Communication Skills 🎭 Conflict Styles ✋ Assertiveness 🚧 Boundary Setting

Conflict Fluent 87%

Every conflict you face gets the same response. There are four other options worth learning.

by Emily Taylor 2021

4.33

6 ratings

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Communication Skills 🎭 Conflict Styles ✋ Assertiveness 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Mediation Process

by Christopher W. Moore • 1986

When you cannot impose a decision, how to guide hostile parties toward their own settlement.

3.96

185

🔥 Conflict Resolution ⚖️ Alternative Dispute Resolution 🤝 Principled Negotiation 🗣️ Facilitation Skills 🔍 Conflict Analysis

The Mediation Process 87%

When you cannot impose a decision, how to guide hostile parties toward their own settlement.

by Christopher W. Moore 1986

3.96

185 ratings

🔥 Conflict Resolution ⚖️ Alternative Dispute Resolution 🤝 Principled Negotiation 🗣️ Facilitation Skills 🔍 Conflict Analysis

Contemporary Conflict Resolution

by Oliver Ramsbotham • 2005

The Cold War ended. Wars moved inside states. Conflict resolution rebuilt itself for what came next.

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180

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 📚 Peace And Conflict Studies 🌍 Intrastate Conflict 🏗️ Peacebuilding 🤝 Peace Mediation

Contemporary Conflict Resolution Summary

Contemporary Conflict Resolution 87%

The Cold War ended. Wars moved inside states. Conflict resolution rebuilt itself for what came next.

by Oliver Ramsbotham 2005

3.73

180 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 📚 Peace And Conflict Studies 🌍 Intrastate Conflict 🏗️ Peacebuilding 🤝 Peace Mediation

Getting Past No

by William Ury • 1991

Push a stubborn counterpart and they dig in harder. Five counterintuitive moves that earn agreement.

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7k+

🤝 Negotiation Tactics 🧊 De-Escalation 👂 Active Listening 🧘 Emotional Regulation ⚖️ Principled Negotiation

Getting Past No 87%

Push a stubborn counterpart and they dig in harder. Five counterintuitive moves that earn agreement.

by William Ury 1991

3.99

7k+ ratings

🤝 Negotiation Tactics 🧊 De-Escalation 👂 Active Listening 🧘 Emotional Regulation ⚖️ Principled Negotiation

Why Are We Yelling

by Buster Benson • 2019

Disagreements can deepen relationships once you learn to read what your anxiety is signaling.

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1k+

🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Cognitive Biases 💭 Emotional Awareness 🗣️ Constructive Dialogue 👁️ Perspective Taking

Why Are We Yelling 87%

Disagreements can deepen relationships once you learn to read what your anxiety is signaling.

by Buster Benson 2019

3.60

1k+ ratings

🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Cognitive Biases 💭 Emotional Awareness 🗣️ Constructive Dialogue 👁️ Perspective Taking

Collaborating with the Enemy

by Adam Kahane • 2017

Conventional collaboration demands agreement and trust. The alternative for when you have neither.

3.19

3k+

🔥 Conflict Resolution 🧩 Systems Thinking 👂 Deep Listening ⚡ Constructive Conflict 🌱 Emergent Strategy

Collaborating with the Enemy 87%

Conventional collaboration demands agreement and trust. The alternative for when you have neither.

by Adam Kahane 2017

3.19

3k+ ratings

🔥 Conflict Resolution 🧩 Systems Thinking 👂 Deep Listening ⚡ Constructive Conflict 🌱 Emergent Strategy

How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable

by Suzette Haden Elgin • 1997

Disagreement does not need to hurt. The tools for holding your ground without the casualties.

3.87

201

🤝 Conflict Resolution 💢 Hostile Language 👂 Active Listening 🧊 De-Escalation 🧠 Cognitive Linguistics

How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable Summary

How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable 87%

Disagreement does not need to hurt. The tools for holding your ground without the casualties.

by Suzette Haden Elgin 1997

3.87

201 ratings

🤝 Conflict Resolution 💢 Hostile Language 👂 Active Listening 🧊 De-Escalation 🧠 Cognitive Linguistics

High Conflict

by Amanda Ripley • 2021

Why some disagreements turn into unending feuds, and the specific technique that breaks the cycle.

4.26

5k+

🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Social Psychology 🚩 Cognitive Biases 👥 Group Dynamics 👂 Active Listening

High Conflict 87%

Why some disagreements turn into unending feuds, and the specific technique that breaks the cycle.

by Amanda Ripley 2021

4.26

5k+ ratings

🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Social Psychology 🚩 Cognitive Biases 👥 Group Dynamics 👂 Active Listening

The Functions of Social Conflict

by Lewis A. Coser • 1956

Conflict builds the groups it seems to threaten. Without it, societies don't heal; they shatter.

3.99

⚔️ Conflict Theory 🏛️ Structural Functionalism 👥 In-Group Out-Group 🔄 Group Dynamics 🪪 Social Identity

The Functions of Social Conflict Summary

The Functions of Social Conflict 87%

Conflict builds the groups it seems to threaten. Without it, societies don't heal; they shatter.

by Lewis A. Coser 1956

3.99

84 ratings

⚔️ Conflict Theory 🏛️ Structural Functionalism 👥 In-Group Out-Group 🔄 Group Dynamics 🪪 Social Identity

Conflict Communication

by Rory Miller • 2014

Conflict follows hidden scripts. A manual for spotting the pattern and choosing a better response.

4.23

381

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology ⚠️ Threat Assessment 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔄 Behavioral Psychology

Conflict Communication 87%

Conflict follows hidden scripts. A manual for spotting the pattern and choosing a better response.

by Rory Miller 2014

4.23

381 ratings

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology ⚠️ Threat Assessment 🚧 Boundary Setting 🔄 Behavioral Psychology

The Mediator's Handbook

by Jennifer E. Beer • 1997

How to guide hostile parties toward their own solutions: the mediator's craft, step by step.

3.95

208

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🤝 Mediation Practice 🎯 Interest-Based Negotiation 👂 Active Listening 🗣️ Facilitation Skills

The Mediator's Handbook 87%

How to guide hostile parties toward their own solutions: the mediator's craft, step by step.

by Jennifer E. Beer 1997

3.95

208 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🤝 Mediation Practice 🎯 Interest-Based Negotiation 👂 Active Listening 🗣️ Facilitation Skills

How to Deal With Difficult People

by Gill Hasson • 2014

Three types of difficult people, the script that disarms each, and the moment each script fails.

3.52

717

💢 Interpersonal Conflict ☠️ Toxic People 🗣️ Communication Skills ✋ Assertiveness Training 🚧 Boundary Setting

How to Deal With Difficult People Summary

How to Deal With Difficult People 87%

Three types of difficult people, the script that disarms each, and the moment each script fails.

by Gill Hasson 2014

3.52

717 ratings

💢 Interpersonal Conflict ☠️ Toxic People 🗣️ Communication Skills ✋ Assertiveness Training 🚧 Boundary Setting

Resolving Conflicts at Work

by Kenneth Cloke • 2011

Workplace conflict isn't the problem. Ten strategies for finding the real one hiding underneath.

3.79

132

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🤝 Mediation Skills 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🏢 Organizational Culture 🔄 Systems Thinking

Resolving Conflicts at Work 86%

Workplace conflict isn't the problem. Ten strategies for finding the real one hiding underneath.

by Kenneth Cloke 2011

3.79

132 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🤝 Mediation Skills 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🏢 Organizational Culture 🔄 Systems Thinking

The Way Out

by Peter T. Coleman • 2021

Winning arguments deepens polarization. The real way out: redesign the hidden systems that fuel it.

3.81

145

🏛️ Conflict Resolution 🔄 Systems Thinking 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🌉 Bridge Building 🔗 Social Psychology

The Way Out 86%

Winning arguments deepens polarization. The real way out: redesign the hidden systems that fuel it.

by Peter T. Coleman 2021

3.81

145 ratings

🏛️ Conflict Resolution 🔄 Systems Thinking 🧠 Cognitive Biases 🌉 Bridge Building 🔗 Social Psychology

I Respectfully Disagree

by Justin Jones-Fosu • 2024

Most people argue to win. The methods for arguing to learn, and why that changes everything.

3.79

100

💬 Difficult Conversations 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🧠 Intellectual Humility 👂 Active Listening 🧩 Cognitive Biases

I Respectfully Disagree 86%

Most people argue to win. The methods for arguing to learn, and why that changes everything.

by Justin Jones-Fosu 2024

3.79

100 ratings

💬 Difficult Conversations 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🧠 Intellectual Humility 👂 Active Listening 🧩 Cognitive Biases

Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High

by Kerry Patterson • 2002

The playbook for the conversations you dread: say hard things without destroying the relationship.

4.07

83k+

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💼 Workplace Communication 🛡️ Psychological Safety 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High Summary

Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High 86%

The playbook for the conversations you dread: say hard things without destroying the relationship.

by Kerry Patterson 2002

4.07

83k+ ratings

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💼 Workplace Communication 🛡️ Psychological Safety 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Blood Lines

by Vamık D. Volkan • 1997

Group identity can become a weapon: the psychological roots of ethnic terrorism.

4.20

🌎 Ethnic Conflict 💔 Collective Trauma 🧠 Group Psychology 🛋️ Psychoanalysis 🏴 Nationalism

Blood Lines 86%

Group identity can become a weapon: the psychological roots of ethnic terrorism.

by Vamık D. Volkan 1997

4.20

60 ratings

🌎 Ethnic Conflict 💔 Collective Trauma 🧠 Group Psychology 🛋️ Psychoanalysis 🏴 Nationalism

Difficult Conversations

by Douglas Stone • 1999

Every argument has three hidden layers. Stop debating the surface; learn which one actually matters.

4.07

20k+

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Workplace Communication 🪞 Identity And Ego 👂 Active Listening ⚖️ Accountability

Difficult Conversations 86%

Every argument has three hidden layers. Stop debating the surface; learn which one actually matters.

by Douglas Stone 1999

4.07

20k+ ratings

🧩 Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Workplace Communication 🪞 Identity And Ego 👂 Active Listening ⚖️ Accountability

The Politics of Collective Violence

by Charles Tilly • 2003

Violence isn't chaos; it's politics, shaped by regimes and the relationships leaders exploit.

3.85

151

✊ Contentious Politics 🔗 Relational Sociology 💥 Political Violence 🏛️ Regime Analysis 📜 Historical Sociology

The Politics of Collective Violence Summary

The Politics of Collective Violence 86%

Violence isn't chaos; it's politics, shaped by regimes and the relationships leaders exploit.

by Charles Tilly 2003

3.85

151 ratings

✊ Contentious Politics 🔗 Relational Sociology 💥 Political Violence 🏛️ Regime Analysis 📜 Historical Sociology

Man, the State, and War

by Kenneth N. Waltz • 1954

You cannot fix war by fixing people or states alone. Anarchy makes all other causes possible.

3.97

2k+

🌍 International Relations 🏛️ Political Theory 🎖️ War Studies 🔬 Levels Of Analysis ⚖️ Structural Realism

Man, the State, and War 86%

You cannot fix war by fixing people or states alone. Anarchy makes all other causes possible.

by Kenneth N. Waltz 1954

3.97

2k+ ratings

🌍 International Relations 🏛️ Political Theory 🎖️ War Studies 🔬 Levels Of Analysis ⚖️ Structural Realism

Negotiating the Impossible

by Deepak Malhotra • 2016

Standard tactics backfire in a deadlock. The counterintuitive moves that actually break through.

4.17

846

🔥 High-Stakes Negotiation 🕊️ Conflict De-Escalation 🖼️ Framing Effects ⚙️ Negotiation Process 👁️ Perspective Taking

Negotiating the Impossible 86%

Standard tactics backfire in a deadlock. The counterintuitive moves that actually break through.

by Deepak Malhotra 2016

4.17

846 ratings

🔥 High-Stakes Negotiation 🕊️ Conflict De-Escalation 🖼️ Framing Effects ⚙️ Negotiation Process 👁️ Perspective Taking

Coping with Difficult People

by Robert M. Bramson • 1981

Difficult people fall into types. What drives each one, and the exact moves that defuse them.

3.77

661

🏢 Workplace Relationships 🤝 Conflict Resolution 😤 Difficult Personalities 🛡️ De-Escalation Techniques 👥 People Managers

Coping with Difficult People 86%

Difficult people fall into types. What drives each one, and the exact moves that defuse them.

by Robert M. Bramson 1981

3.77

661 ratings

🏢 Workplace Relationships 🤝 Conflict Resolution 😤 Difficult Personalities 🛡️ De-Escalation Techniques 👥 People Managers

Solving Tough Problems

by Adam Kahane • 2004

Complex problems default to stalemate or force. The way out is a different kind of conversation.

3.98

324

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Dialogue Practice 🔗 Systems Thinking 👂 Deep Listening 🤝 Facilitative Leadership

Solving Tough Problems 86%

Complex problems default to stalemate or force. The way out is a different kind of conversation.

by Adam Kahane 2004

3.98

324 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🗣️ Dialogue Practice 🔗 Systems Thinking 👂 Deep Listening 🤝 Facilitative Leadership

Political Tribes

by Amy Chua • 2018

Vietnam, Iraq, and now America: the tribal instinct that loses wars is consuming us at home.

4.20

4k+

🏴 Ethnic Conflict ⚡ Failed Interventions 👥 Us Vs Them 🎯 Identity Politics 🧠 Political Psychology

Political Tribes 86%

Vietnam, Iraq, and now America: the tribal instinct that loses wars is consuming us at home.

by Amy Chua 2018

4.20

4k+ ratings

🏴 Ethnic Conflict ⚡ Failed Interventions 👥 Us Vs Them 🎯 Identity Politics 🧠 Political Psychology

The Good Fight

by Liane Davey • 2019

Conflict avoidance is wired in childhood. Your team pays the price. A method for rewiring it.

4.11

143

🔥 Workplace Conflict 🏢 Organizational Culture 💬 Difficult Conversations 🛡️ Psychological Safety 👥 Team Dynamics

The Good Fight 86%

Conflict avoidance is wired in childhood. Your team pays the price. A method for rewiring it.

by Liane Davey 2019

4.11

143 ratings

🔥 Workplace Conflict 🏢 Organizational Culture 💬 Difficult Conversations 🛡️ Psychological Safety 👥 Team Dynamics

The Israel Lobby and U.S. Foreign Policy

by John J. Mearsheimer • 2006

How a single interest group has reshaped U.S. Middle East policy, often against American interests.

4.12

4k+

🌍 Foreign Policy 🤝 Political Lobbying ⚔️ Middle East Conflict 📺 Media Influence 🎓 Realism

The Israel Lobby and U.S. Foreign Policy Summary

The Israel Lobby and U.S. Foreign Policy 86%

How a single interest group has reshaped U.S. Middle East policy, often against American interests.

by John J. Mearsheimer 2006

4.12

4k+ ratings

🌍 Foreign Policy 🤝 Political Lobbying ⚔️ Middle East Conflict 📺 Media Influence 🎓 Realism

Beyond Reason

by Roger Fisher • 2005

Your emotions aren't wrecking your negotiations. Ignoring them is. Here's how to put them to work.

3.88

1k+

🗣️ Negotiation Tactics ⚖️ Principled Negotiation 🎭 Emotional Intelligence 🛑 De-Escalation Techniques 🕊️ Conflict Resolution

Beyond Reason 86%

Your emotions aren't wrecking your negotiations. Ignoring them is. Here's how to put them to work.

by Roger Fisher 2005

3.88

1k+ ratings

🗣️ Negotiation Tactics ⚖️ Principled Negotiation 🎭 Emotional Intelligence 🛑 De-Escalation Techniques 🕊️ Conflict Resolution

Destined for War

by Graham Allison • 2017

Three out of four great-power transitions end in war. America and China are mid-transition.

4.19

7k+

🏛️ International Relations 🌍 Geopolitics 🤝 Us-China Relations ⚔️ Great Power Rivalry ☢️ Nuclear Deterrence

Destined for War 86%

Three out of four great-power transitions end in war. America and China are mid-transition.

by Graham Allison 2017

4.19

7k+ ratings

🏛️ International Relations 🌍 Geopolitics 🤝 Us-China Relations ⚔️ Great Power Rivalry ☢️ Nuclear Deterrence

Conflict Sociology

by Randall Collins • 1975

Everyday talk is a power struggle. A conflict lens reveals how it builds class, states, and beliefs.

4.29

🥊 Conflict Theory 📊 Social Stratification 🔍 Micro-Sociology 📜 Weberian Sociology 🕯️ Ritual And Solidarity

Conflict Sociology 86%

Everyday talk is a power struggle. A conflict lens reveals how it builds class, states, and beliefs.

by Randall Collins 1975

4.29

14 ratings

🥊 Conflict Theory 📊 Social Stratification 🔍 Micro-Sociology 📜 Weberian Sociology 🕯️ Ritual And Solidarity

Perception and Misperception in International Politics

by Robert Jervis • 1976

The reason states stumble into war is not malice, but a pattern of predictable misperceptions.

4.17

417

🧠 Political Psychology 🌐 International Relations 📈 Conflict Escalation 📜 Historical Analogy 👁️ Perceptual Error

Perception and Misperception in International Politics Summary

Perception and Misperception in International Politics 86%

The reason states stumble into war is not malice, but a pattern of predictable misperceptions.

by Robert Jervis 1976

4.17

417 ratings

🧠 Political Psychology 🌐 International Relations 📈 Conflict Escalation 📜 Historical Analogy 👁️ Perceptual Error

How to Deal with Angry People

by Ryan Martin • 2023

Anger spreads like a virus. Ten psychology-backed strategies for staying steady when others lose it.

3.45

238

😠 Anger Management 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🛑 Boundary Setting 👥 Social Psychology

How to Deal with Angry People 86%

Anger spreads like a virus. Ten psychology-backed strategies for staying steady when others lose it.

by Ryan Martin 2023

3.45

238 ratings

😠 Anger Management 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🛑 Boundary Setting 👥 Social Psychology

Managing Narcissists, Blamers, Dramatics and More...

by Mark Murphy • 2019

When blame flies or drama explodes, the exact words that keep you calm and in control.

4.07

193

💥 Workplace Conflict 🗣️ Communication Scripts 🧩 Personality Types 🚧 Setting Boundaries 🤝 Conflict Resolution

Managing Narcissists, Blamers, Dramatics and More... Summary

Managing Narcissists, Blamers, Dramatics and More... 86%

When blame flies or drama explodes, the exact words that keep you calm and in control.

by Mark Murphy 2019

4.07

193 ratings

💥 Workplace Conflict 🗣️ Communication Scripts 🧩 Personality Types 🚧 Setting Boundaries 🤝 Conflict Resolution

Verbal Judo

by George J. Thompson • 1993

Street tested persuasion: how to deflect insults, calm hostility, and gain cooperation from anyone.

3.84

7k+

🗣️ Interpersonal Communication 🧊 Conflict De-Escalation 🎯 Persuasion Techniques 💬 Difficult Conversations 👂 Active Listening

Verbal Judo 86%

Street tested persuasion: how to deflect insults, calm hostility, and gain cooperation from anyone.

by George J. Thompson 1993

3.84

7k+ ratings

🗣️ Interpersonal Communication 🧊 Conflict De-Escalation 🎯 Persuasion Techniques 💬 Difficult Conversations 👂 Active Listening

The Yom Kippur War

by 50Minutes • 2016

How a Yom Kippur ambush shattered Israel's myth, drew in superpowers, and led to Camp David.

3.00

⚔️ Arab-Israeli Conflict 🕵️‍♂️ Intelligence Failures 🤝 Cold War Diplomacy ☢️ Nuclear Brinkmanship 🛡️ Military Technology

The Yom Kippur War 86%

How a Yom Kippur ambush shattered Israel's myth, drew in superpowers, and led to Camp David.

by 50Minutes 2016

3.00

3 ratings

⚔️ Arab-Israeli Conflict 🕵️‍♂️ Intelligence Failures 🤝 Cold War Diplomacy ☢️ Nuclear Brinkmanship 🛡️ Military Technology

How to Have That Difficult Conversation

by Henry Cloud • 2003

The skills for the talk you dread: how to prepare, speak honestly, and heal the relationship.

3.99

1k+

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🚧 Boundary Setting 🪞 Personal Accountability 👂 Active Listening

How to Have That Difficult Conversation Summary

How to Have That Difficult Conversation 86%

The skills for the talk you dread: how to prepare, speak honestly, and heal the relationship.

by Henry Cloud 2003

3.99

1k+ ratings

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🚧 Boundary Setting 🪞 Personal Accountability 👂 Active Listening

The Future of Geography

by Tim Marshall • 2023

Space is the new geography of power: every conflict below is replicating in orbit.

3.91

8k+

🚀 New Space Race 🛰️ Astropolitics 💥 Space Warfare 🌐 Realist Geopolitics ⚖️ Space Law

The Future of Geography 86%

Space is the new geography of power: every conflict below is replicating in orbit.

by Tim Marshall 2023

3.91

8k+ ratings

🚀 New Space Race 🛰️ Astropolitics 💥 Space Warfare 🌐 Realist Geopolitics ⚖️ Space Law

Mingling with the Enemy

by Jeanne Martinet • 2020

The conversational prep, pivots, and exits for surviving our politically divided social world.

3.70

🏛️ Political Polarization 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Civil Discourse 🛑 Conflict De-Escalation 👂 Active Listening

Mingling with the Enemy 86%

The conversational prep, pivots, and exits for surviving our politically divided social world.

by Jeanne Martinet 2020

3.70

44 ratings

🏛️ Political Polarization 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Civil Discourse 🛑 Conflict De-Escalation 👂 Active Listening

The 3rd Alternative

by Stephen R. Covey • 2011

Compromise is failure. A collaborative method for building answers neither side imagined.

4.08

2k+

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🧩 Integrative Thinking 👂 Empathic Listening 🔄 Systems Thinking ⚖️ Restorative Justice

The 3rd Alternative 86%

Compromise is failure. A collaborative method for building answers neither side imagined.

by Stephen R. Covey 2011

4.08

2k+ ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🧩 Integrative Thinking 👂 Empathic Listening 🔄 Systems Thinking ⚖️ Restorative Justice

The Anatomy of Peace

by The Arbinger Institute • 2015

Conflict begins when you see people as obstacles instead of people. The rest is justification.

4.19

18k+

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎭 Self-Deception 💥 Interpersonal Conflict 🧭 Personal Responsibility 🏢 Organizational Culture

The Anatomy of Peace 86%

Conflict begins when you see people as obstacles instead of people. The rest is justification.

by The Arbinger Institute 2015

4.19

18k+ ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎭 Self-Deception 💥 Interpersonal Conflict 🧭 Personal Responsibility 🏢 Organizational Culture

Can We Talk About Israel?

by Daniel Sokatch • 2021

A guide to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict for people who want to move beyond the slogans.

4.33

2k+

🕊️ Israeli-Palestinian Conflict 🌍 Middle East Politics ✡️ Zionism History ⚖️ Competing Narratives 🚧 Occupation And Settlements

Can We Talk About Israel? 86%

A guide to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict for people who want to move beyond the slogans.

by Daniel Sokatch 2021

4.33

2k+ ratings

🕊️ Israeli-Palestinian Conflict 🌍 Middle East Politics ✡️ Zionism History ⚖️ Competing Narratives 🚧 Occupation And Settlements

Black Garden

by Thomas de Waal • 2003

One Soviet province started an ethnic war in 1988 by voting to secede. The stalemate remains.

4.25

835

⚔️ Caucasus Conflicts 🔥 Post-Soviet Wars 💔 Ethnic Conflict 📜 Competing Histories ❄️ Frozen Conflicts

Black Garden 86%

One Soviet province started an ethnic war in 1988 by voting to secede. The stalemate remains.

by Thomas de Waal 2003

4.25

835 ratings

⚔️ Caucasus Conflicts 🔥 Post-Soviet Wars 💔 Ethnic Conflict 📜 Competing Histories ❄️ Frozen Conflicts

Dealing with Difficult People

by Harvard Business Review • 2007

Diagnose conflict before you act: hot fights and cold shoulders each need a different playbook.

3.66

1k+

💥 Workplace Conflict 💬 Difficult Conversations 🧊 Passive Aggression ⬆️ Managing Up 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Dealing with Difficult People 86%

Diagnose conflict before you act: hot fights and cold shoulders each need a different playbook.

by Harvard Business Review 2007

3.66

1k+ ratings

💥 Workplace Conflict 💬 Difficult Conversations 🧊 Passive Aggression ⬆️ Managing Up 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Fierce Conversations

by Susan Scott • 2002

The conversation you're avoiding is costing you. Seven steps for finally having it.

4.00

11k+

🗣️ Tough Conversations ⚡ Conflict Resolution 💬 Authentic Dialogue 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 👂 Active Listening

Fierce Conversations 86%

The conversation you're avoiding is costing you. Seven steps for finally having it.

by Susan Scott 2002

4.00

11k+ ratings

🗣️ Tough Conversations ⚡ Conflict Resolution 💬 Authentic Dialogue 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 👂 Active Listening

Scaling Force

by Rory Miller • 2012

Survive the fight and the trial. A graduated system for matching your response to the threat.

4.41

172

👀 Situational Awareness 🗣️ Conflict De-Escalation 🦅 Predatory Violence 📊 Escalation Of Force ⚖️ Self-Defense Law

Scaling Force 86%

Survive the fight and the trial. A graduated system for matching your response to the threat.

by Rory Miller 2012

4.41

172 ratings

👀 Situational Awareness 🗣️ Conflict De-Escalation 🦅 Predatory Violence 📊 Escalation Of Force ⚖️ Self-Defense Law

Conflicts

by Edward de Bono • 1985

Most conflict resolution just refines the argument. What if disputes were design problems instead?

3.52

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎨 Design Thinking 🗺️ Mental Models 💡 Creative Thinking 🔄 Systems Thinking

Conflicts 86%

Most conflict resolution just refines the argument. What if disputes were design problems instead?

by Edward de Bono 1985

3.52

64 ratings

🕊️ Conflict Resolution 🎨 Design Thinking 🗺️ Mental Models 💡 Creative Thinking 🔄 Systems Thinking

Conflict Without Casualties

by Nate Regier • 2017

Workplace drama follows a script you didn't write. Three skills flip it into productive conflict.

3.95

143

🔄 Conflict Transformation 🏢 Workplace Dynamics 💭 Emotional Responsibility 🔁 Relational Patterns 🛡️ Psychological Safety

Conflict Without Casualties 86%

Workplace drama follows a script you didn't write. Three skills flip it into productive conflict.

by Nate Regier 2017

3.95

143 ratings

🔄 Conflict Transformation 🏢 Workplace Dynamics 💭 Emotional Responsibility 🔁 Relational Patterns 🛡️ Psychological Safety

The Surprising Purpose of Anger

by Marshall B. Rosenberg • 2005

Anger isn't the enemy. The practice for finding the unmet need behind every outburst.

4.12

802

😤 Healthy Anger 💬 Compassionate Communication 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 💖 Emotional Needs 🫂 Empathy Practice

The Surprising Purpose of Anger 86%

Anger isn't the enemy. The practice for finding the unmet need behind every outburst.

by Marshall B. Rosenberg 2005

4.12

802 ratings

😤 Healthy Anger 💬 Compassionate Communication 🕊️ Conflict Resolution 💖 Emotional Needs 🫂 Empathy Practice

Dealing with Difficult People

by Roy Lilley • 2001

Seven types of difficult people, one playbook. Spot the pattern, tailor the response, end the drama.

3.24

566

🎭 Difficult Personalities ⚡ Workplace Conflict 👥 People Management 💬 Communication Tactics 🗣️ Assertive Communication

Dealing with Difficult People 86%

Seven types of difficult people, one playbook. Spot the pattern, tailor the response, end the drama.

by Roy Lilley 2001

3.24

566 ratings

🎭 Difficult Personalities ⚡ Workplace Conflict 👥 People Management 💬 Communication Tactics 🗣️ Assertive Communication

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