30 Books like Platonic

Here to Make Friends

by Hope Kelaher • 2020

Proximity made your childhood friends. Here is the intentional system for making them as an adult.

3.19

155

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 😔 Loneliness 🔗 Attachment Theory

Here to Make Friends 98%

Proximity made your childhood friends. Here is the intentional system for making them as an adult.

by Hope Kelaher 2020

3.19

155 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 😔 Loneliness 🔗 Attachment Theory

We Should Get Together

by Kat Vellos • 2020

Loneliness hits like a smoking habit. The cure isn't more friends; it's a skill we forgot.

3.85

954

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🫀 Social Health

We Should Get Together 98%

Loneliness hits like a smoking habit. The cure isn't more friends; it's a skill we forgot.

by Kat Vellos 2020

3.85

954 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🫀 Social Health

The Friendship Crisis

by Marla Paul • 2004

Why making friends after 30 feels impossible, and the concrete steps that actually work.

3.18

254

👫 Adult Friendships 🤝 Making Friends 💔 Combatting Loneliness

The Friendship Crisis 98%

Why making friends after 30 feels impossible, and the concrete steps that actually work.

by Marla Paul 2004

3.18

254 ratings

👫 Adult Friendships 🤝 Making Friends 💔 Combatting Loneliness

You Will Find Your People

by Lane Moore • 2023

TV promised you ride-or-die friends by 25. The real playbook for finding them in adulthood.

3.25

3k+

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🤝 Platonic Relationships 🧠 Attachment Theory

You Will Find Your People 98%

TV promised you ride-or-die friends by 25. The real playbook for finding them in adulthood.

by Lane Moore 2023

3.25

3k+ ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🤝 Platonic Relationships 🧠 Attachment Theory

The Friendship Formula

by Caroline Millington • 2019

Adult friendship is harder than it looks. The science of how many hours closeness actually takes.

3.24

164

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🔬 Friendship Science ❤️‍🩹 Social Health

The Friendship Formula 98%

Adult friendship is harder than it looks. The science of how many hours closeness actually takes.

by Caroline Millington 2019

3.24

164 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🔬 Friendship Science ❤️‍🩹 Social Health

Frientimacy

by Shasta Nelson • 2016

Friendship is not about quantity. The depth you crave requires three simple but difficult practices.

3.80

840

👭 Adult Friendships 🤝 Social Connection 💬 Vulnerable Friendships

Frientimacy 98%

Friendship is not about quantity. The depth you crave requires three simple but difficult practices.

by Shasta Nelson 2016

3.80

840 ratings

👭 Adult Friendships 🤝 Social Connection 💬 Vulnerable Friendships

The Friendship Fix

by Andrea Bonior • 2011

Adult friendship is a skill: the manual for making, keeping, and ending them with care.

3.18

122

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧠 Friendship Psychology 🤝 Making Friends

The Friendship Fix 97%

Adult friendship is a skill: the manual for making, keeping, and ending them with care.

by Andrea Bonior 2011

3.18

122 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧠 Friendship Psychology 🤝 Making Friends

The Laws of Connection

by David Robson • 2024

Social bonds predict longevity better than diet or exercise. The skills to build them are learnable.

3.74

434

🧬 Friendship Science 😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills

The Laws of Connection 97%

Social bonds predict longevity better than diet or exercise. The skills to build them are learnable.

by David Robson 2024

3.74

434 ratings

🧬 Friendship Science 😰 Social Anxiety 💬 Conversation Skills

Belong

by Radha Agrawal • 2018

Loneliness harms like alcoholism. A method to find true community, not just more contacts.

3.60

1k+

🏘️ Community Building 👥 Adult Friendships 🏠 Belonging

Belong 97%

Loneliness harms like alcoholism. A method to find true community, not just more contacts.

by Radha Agrawal 2018

3.60

1k+ ratings

🏘️ Community Building 👥 Adult Friendships 🏠 Belonging

The Art of Showing Up

by Rachel Wilkerson Miller • 2020

The friendships you want require skills nobody taught you, starting with showing up for yourself.

3.77

3k+

🫂 Adult Friendships 💞 Friendship Skills 🧘 Self-Compassion Practices

The Art of Showing Up 97%

The friendships you want require skills nobody taught you, starting with showing up for yourself.

by Rachel Wilkerson Miller 2020

3.77

3k+ ratings

🫂 Adult Friendships 💞 Friendship Skills 🧘 Self-Compassion Practices

Modern Friendship

by Anna Goldfarb • 2024

Not all friends are the same tier. A system for categorizing, maintaining, and deepening each one.

3.74

884

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧰 Friendship Maintenance 🎯 Intentional Friendship

Modern Friendship 97%

Not all friends are the same tier. A system for categorizing, maintaining, and deepening each one.

by Anna Goldfarb 2024

3.74

884 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendships 🧰 Friendship Maintenance 🎯 Intentional Friendship

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness

by Adam Smiley Poswolsky • 2021

You have hundreds of contacts and maybe one real friend. The playbook for rebuilding your circle.

3.38

426

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Social Connection 😔 Loneliness Epidemic

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness Summary

Friendship in the Age of Loneliness 97%

You have hundreds of contacts and maybe one real friend. The playbook for rebuilding your circle.

by Adam Smiley Poswolsky 2021

3.38

426 ratings

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Social Connection 😔 Loneliness Epidemic

The Art and Science of Connection

by Kasley Killam • 2024

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

3.85

637

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building

The Art and Science of Connection Summary

The Art and Science of Connection 96%

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

by Kasley Killam 2024

3.85

637 ratings

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building

Plays Well with Others

by Eric Barker • 2022

Love mimics mental illness, your people radar barely works, and the fix is stronger signals.

4.09

3k+

🧪 Relationship Science 🤝 Adult Friendships 🗣️ Conflict Resolution

Plays Well with Others 96%

Love mimics mental illness, your people radar barely works, and the fix is stronger signals.

by Eric Barker 2022

4.09

3k+ ratings

🧪 Relationship Science 🤝 Adult Friendships 🗣️ Conflict Resolution

The Friendship Cure

by Kate Leaver • 2018

Loneliness rivals tobacco as a killer. Friendship is an evolutionary necessity, not a luxury.

3.32

544

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Social Connection 🏥 Loneliness Epidemic 👫 Adult Friendships

The Friendship Cure 96%

Loneliness rivals tobacco as a killer. Friendship is an evolutionary necessity, not a luxury.

by Kate Leaver 2018

3.32

544 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Social Connection 🏥 Loneliness Epidemic 👫 Adult Friendships

Find Your People

by Jennie Allen • 2022

More lethal than smoking: chronic loneliness. The cure is five people who actually know you.

3.94

21k+

🧩 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Christian Community 🕊️ Spiritual Friendship

Find Your People 96%

More lethal than smoking: chronic loneliness. The cure is five people who actually know you.

by Jennie Allen 2022

3.94

21k+ ratings

🧩 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Christian Community 🕊️ Spiritual Friendship

The Friendship Factor

by Alan Loy McGinnis • 1978

Marriages and careers rise and fall on one skill you were never taught: making friends.

4.15

1k+

🛠️ Friendship Building 💞 Relational Intimacy 👂 Active Listening

The Friendship Factor 96%

Marriages and careers rise and fall on one skill you were never taught: making friends.

by Alan Loy McGinnis 1978

4.15

1k+ ratings

🛠️ Friendship Building 💞 Relational Intimacy 👂 Active Listening

Soul Friends

by Stephen Cope • 2017

You are not self-made. Six distinct relationships built your personality, one attachment at a time.

4.23

164

🧩 Attachment Theory 👥 Friendship Psychology 🔧 Attachment Repair

Soul Friends 96%

You are not self-made. Six distinct relationships built your personality, one attachment at a time.

by Stephen Cope 2017

4.23

164 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 👥 Friendship Psychology 🔧 Attachment Repair

Big Friendship

by Aminatou Sow • 2020

Friendship is the only important relationship we expect to maintain without instruction.

3.74

25k+

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 👯 Women'S Friendships 🏠 Chosen Family

Big Friendship 95%

Friendship is the only important relationship we expect to maintain without instruction.

by Aminatou Sow 2020

3.74

25k+ ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Adult Friendship 👯 Women'S Friendships 🏠 Chosen Family

When Friendship Hurts

by Jan Yager • 2002

Diagnose toxic friendships, set boundaries that hold, and know when to walk away.

3.46

336

🤝 Friendship Advice 🍄 Toxic Friendships 🚧 Boundary Setting

When Friendship Hurts 95%

Diagnose toxic friendships, set boundaries that hold, and know when to walk away.

by Jan Yager 2002

3.46

336 ratings

🤝 Friendship Advice 🍄 Toxic Friendships 🚧 Boundary Setting

Friendship for Grown-Ups

by Lisa Whelchel • 2010

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

3.69

353

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability

Friendship for Grown-Ups 95%

Closeness to God depends on closeness to trustworthy friends. A former child star shows how.

by Lisa Whelchel 2010

3.69

353 ratings

🤝 Adult Friendships ✝️ Christian Friendship 🫂 Relational Vulnerability

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World

by Vivek H. Murthy • 2020

Chronic loneliness shortens lives more than smoking, and the antidote is hiding in plain sight.

4.22

8k+

😔 Loneliness 🏥 Public Health 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World Summary

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World 95%

Chronic loneliness shortens lives more than smoking, and the antidote is hiding in plain sight.

by Vivek H. Murthy 2020

4.22

8k+ ratings

😔 Loneliness 🏥 Public Health 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Fighting for Our Friendships

by Danielle Bayard Jackson • 2024

Why female friendships fray and how to repair them from first fight to last goodbye.

4.14

1k+

👯 Female Friendships ⚡ Conflict Resolution 🛡️ Boundary Setting

Fighting for Our Friendships 95%

Why female friendships fray and how to repair them from first fight to last goodbye.

by Danielle Bayard Jackson 2024

4.14

1k+ ratings

👯 Female Friendships ⚡ Conflict Resolution 🛡️ Boundary Setting

Billy No-Mates

by Max Dickins • 2022

No close male friends at 30: an engaged man investigates the male friendship crisis.

4.16

463

🧱 Male Friendship 📖 Masculinity Studies 🏚️ Male Loneliness

Billy No-Mates 95%

No close male friends at 30: an engaged man investigates the male friendship crisis.

by Max Dickins 2022

4.16

463 ratings

🧱 Male Friendship 📖 Masculinity Studies 🏚️ Male Loneliness

The 2-Hour Cocktail Party

by Nick Gray • 2022

Not a natural networker? Two hours on a Tuesday with name tags does the work for you.

4.15

857

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Professional Networking 🎉 Hosting Gatherings

The 2-Hour Cocktail Party 95%

Not a natural networker? Two hours on a Tuesday with name tags does the work for you.

by Nick Gray 2022

4.15

857 ratings

👥 Adult Friendship 🤝 Professional Networking 🎉 Hosting Gatherings

Friendship

by Lydia Denworth • 2020

Loneliness kills like smoking. The biology of friendship, from macaques to MRI, reveals why.

3.64

794

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧠 Social Neuroscience 💔 Loneliness And Health

Friendship 95%

Loneliness kills like smoking. The biology of friendship, from macaques to MRI, reveals why.

by Lydia Denworth 2020

3.64

794 ratings

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧠 Social Neuroscience 💔 Loneliness And Health

The Joy of Connections

by Ruth Westheimer • 2024

100 ways to beat loneliness, from the 95-year-old therapist who lost everyone and rebuilt.

3.63

972

🫂 Loneliness Recovery 🏘️ Community Engagement 👥 Building Friendships

The Joy of Connections 94%

100 ways to beat loneliness, from the 95-year-old therapist who lost everyone and rebuilt.

by Ruth Westheimer 2024

3.63

972 ratings

🫂 Loneliness Recovery 🏘️ Community Engagement 👥 Building Friendships

Braving the Wilderness

by Brené Brown • 2017

The more we sort into tribes, the lonelier we get. Belonging starts with standing alone.

4.12

121k+

🏠 Authentic Belonging 🗳️ Political Polarization 🪞 Self-Acceptance

Braving the Wilderness 94%

The more we sort into tribes, the lonelier we get. Belonging starts with standing alone.

by Brené Brown 2017

4.12

121k+ ratings

🏠 Authentic Belonging 🗳️ Political Polarization 🪞 Self-Acceptance

Made for People

by Justin Whitmel Earley • 2023

Hyper-connected yet lonely: the habits that reclaim friendship as a Christian practice.

4.45

3k+

🌍 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Biblical Community 🙏 Spiritual Formation

Made for People 94%

Hyper-connected yet lonely: the habits that reclaim friendship as a Christian practice.

by Justin Whitmel Earley 2023

4.45

3k+ ratings

🌍 Loneliness Epidemic ⛪ Biblical Community 🙏 Spiritual Formation

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *

by Philippa Perry • 2023

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

3.79

6k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * Summary

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read * 93%

Your earliest relationships are still running your love life. Here's how to take back the controls.

by Philippa Perry 2023

3.79

6k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💬 Conflict Resolution

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