50 Books like Mask Off

For the Love of Men

by Liz Plank • 2019

Boys are taught to be men, and the lessons are lethal. A path out through feminism.

4.27

8k+

🧨 Toxic Masculinity 📚 Masculinity Studies 👶 Gender Socialization 🧠 Men's Mental Health 🎭 Male Stoicism

For the Love of Men 97%

Boys are taught to be men, and the lessons are lethal. A path out through feminism.

by Liz Plank 2019

4.27

8k+ ratings

🧨 Toxic Masculinity 📚 Masculinity Studies 👶 Gender Socialization 🧠 Men's Mental Health 🎭 Male Stoicism

What About Men?

by Caitlin Moran • 2023

Boys get no instruction manual for feelings. What a feminist found when she finally asked about men.

3.66

4k+

🧔 Modern Masculinity 💬 Emotional Literacy ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 🤝 Male Friendship 🫥 Body Image

What About Men? 97%

Boys get no instruction manual for feelings. What a feminist found when she finally asked about men.

by Caitlin Moran 2023

3.66

4k+ ratings

🧔 Modern Masculinity 💬 Emotional Literacy ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 🤝 Male Friendship 🫥 Body Image

Modern Manhood

by Cleo Stiller • 2019

Men know the old playbook is broken. This is the conversation that replaces it.

3.68

106

💪 Modern Masculinity ✋ Consent Culture 🫂 Vulnerability In Men 🧘 Men's Mental Health 👨‍👦 Raising Sons

Modern Manhood 96%

Men know the old playbook is broken. This is the conversation that replaces it.

by Cleo Stiller 2019

3.68

106 ratings

💪 Modern Masculinity ✋ Consent Culture 🫂 Vulnerability In Men 🧘 Men's Mental Health 👨‍👦 Raising Sons

The Myth of Male Power

by Warren Farrell • 1993

Men die younger, work deadlier jobs, and kill themselves more often. What if that is not power?

3.93

985

⚖️ Gender Politics 🧔 Men's Studies 🏛️ Power Structures 🧠 Social Conditioning 🎭 Victimhood Culture

The Myth of Male Power 96%

Men die younger, work deadlier jobs, and kill themselves more often. What if that is not power?

by Warren Farrell 1993

3.93

985 ratings

⚖️ Gender Politics 🧔 Men's Studies 🏛️ Power Structures 🧠 Social Conditioning 🎭 Victimhood Culture

Women, Men, and the Whole Damn Thing

by David Leser • 2021

#MeToo revealed the scaffolding of male entitlement. The dismantling depends on men.

4.02

460

✊ Modern Feminism 🏛️ Patriarchal Systems 🗣️ #MeToo Movement 🧨 Toxic Masculinity 🤝 Sexual Consent

Women, Men, and the Whole Damn Thing Summary

Women, Men, and the Whole Damn Thing 96%

#MeToo revealed the scaffolding of male entitlement. The dismantling depends on men.

by David Leser 2021

4.02

460 ratings

✊ Modern Feminism 🏛️ Patriarchal Systems 🗣️ #MeToo Movement 🧨 Toxic Masculinity 🤝 Sexual Consent

Boys & Sex

by Peggy Orenstein • 2020

The sex ed boys actually get: porn, peers, and a masculinity that forbids feeling.

4.23

7k+

🔬 Masculinity Studies 🍻 Hookup Culture 📖 Sex Education 📱 Porn And Society ⛓️ Toxic Masculinity

Boys & Sex 96%

The sex ed boys actually get: porn, peers, and a masculinity that forbids feeling.

by Peggy Orenstein 2020

4.23

7k+ ratings

🔬 Masculinity Studies 🍻 Hookup Culture 📖 Sex Education 📱 Porn And Society ⛓️ Toxic Masculinity

Man Enough

by Justin Baldoni • 2021

He had the fame, the abs, and the misery. Change began when he stopped performing.

4.07

5k+

💣 Deconstructing Masculinity ❤️‍🩹 Men And Emotions 🪞 Male Body Image 👨‍👧 Modern Fatherhood 🧬 Generational Healing

Man Enough 96%

He had the fame, the abs, and the misery. Change began when he stopped performing.

by Justin Baldoni 2021

4.07

5k+ ratings

💣 Deconstructing Masculinity ❤️‍🩹 Men And Emotions 🪞 Male Body Image 👨‍👧 Modern Fatherhood 🧬 Generational Healing

Getting Off

by Robert Jensen • 2007

Porn promises men freedom but delivers a hollow power that erodes their capacity for authentic joy.

3.68

706

✊ Radical Feminism 🔞 Pornography Criticism 👤 Masculinity Studies 🤝 Men And Feminism ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

Getting Off 95%

Porn promises men freedom but delivers a hollow power that erodes their capacity for authentic joy.

by Robert Jensen 2007

3.68

706 ratings

✊ Radical Feminism 🔞 Pornography Criticism 👤 Masculinity Studies 🤝 Men And Feminism ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

The Guy's Guide to Feminism

by Michael Kaufman • 2011

Equality isn't just for women: a straight-talking guide for the guys who want in.

3.54

380

♂️ Men And Feminism 🎭 Gender Stereotypes 🤝 Consent Culture 🔀 Intersectional Feminism 💼 Workplace Equality

The Guy's Guide to Feminism 95%

Equality isn't just for women: a straight-talking guide for the guys who want in.

by Michael Kaufman 2011

3.54

380 ratings

♂️ Men And Feminism 🎭 Gender Stereotypes 🤝 Consent Culture 🔀 Intersectional Feminism 💼 Workplace Equality

The Mask of Masculinity

by Lewis Howes • 2017

Men perform toughness, silence, and control because the alternative feels like weakness. It isn't.

3.98

2k+

🧔 Men's Self-Help 📚 Masculinity Studies ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 👦 Male Socialization 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

The Mask of Masculinity 95%

Men perform toughness, silence, and control because the alternative feels like weakness. It isn't.

by Lewis Howes 2017

3.98

2k+ ratings

🧔 Men's Self-Help 📚 Masculinity Studies ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 👦 Male Socialization 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Of Boys and Men

by Richard V. Reeves • 2022

The left pathologizes masculinity, the right wants to restore it. Both miss what boys need.

4.00

12k+

🛑 Male Disadvantage 🛠️ Men And Work 🧑‍🎓 Boys And Education 👨‍👧 Modern Fatherhood 🧠 Male Brain Development

Of Boys and Men 95%

The left pathologizes masculinity, the right wants to restore it. Both miss what boys need.

by Richard V. Reeves 2022

4.00

12k+ ratings

🛑 Male Disadvantage 🛠️ Men And Work 🧑‍🎓 Boys And Education 👨‍👧 Modern Fatherhood 🧠 Male Brain Development

The Psychology of Gender

by Gary W. Wood • 2018

The data: men and women are mostly the same, and pretending otherwise hurts everyone, including men.

3.71

🧠 Gender Psychology 👥 Social Psychology 🏷️ Gender Stereotypes 🔍 Cognitive Biases ✊ Feminist Psychology

The Psychology of Gender 95%

The data: men and women are mostly the same, and pretending otherwise hurts everyone, including men.

by Gary W. Wood 2018

3.71

76 ratings

🧠 Gender Psychology 👥 Social Psychology 🏷️ Gender Stereotypes 🔍 Cognitive Biases ✊ Feminist Psychology

We Real Cool

by bell hooks • 2003

Slave-era patriarchy, street culture, and the wound of black masculinity: why only love heals.

4.27

1k+

🖤 Black Masculinity ⚪️ White Supremacy ✳️ Intersectionality ✊🏾 Black Feminism 🚹 Patriarchal Culture

We Real Cool 95%

Slave-era patriarchy, street culture, and the wound of black masculinity: why only love heals.

by bell hooks 2003

4.27

1k+ ratings

🖤 Black Masculinity ⚪️ White Supremacy ✳️ Intersectionality ✊🏾 Black Feminism 🚹 Patriarchal Culture

To Be a Man

by Robert Augustus Masters • 2015

Beyond confidence hacks: facing shame and shadow to build a masculinity strong enough to be soft.

3.96

334

🛠️ Men's Work 🌑 Shadow Work 💪 Healthy Masculinity 🫂 Shame And Healing 🧠 Jungian Psychology

To Be a Man 95%

Beyond confidence hacks: facing shame and shadow to build a masculinity strong enough to be soft.

by Robert Augustus Masters 2015

3.96

334 ratings

🛠️ Men's Work 🌑 Shadow Work 💪 Healthy Masculinity 🫂 Shame And Healing 🧠 Jungian Psychology

Seduction

by Rachel O'Neill • 2018

How pickup culture turns male loneliness into a commodity and reframes sexual coercion as a skill.

4.59

🔍 Seduction Communities 🧔 Modern Masculinity 💰 Commodified Intimacy ⚠️ Rape Culture 😤 Aggrieved Masculinity

Seduction 95%

How pickup culture turns male loneliness into a commodity and reframes sexual coercion as a skill.

by Rachel O'Neill 2018

4.59

41 ratings

🔍 Seduction Communities 🧔 Modern Masculinity 💰 Commodified Intimacy ⚠️ Rape Culture 😤 Aggrieved Masculinity

Fire in the Belly

by Sam Keen • 1991

The false rites of work, war, and sex. The inward pilgrimage to a fiercer, humbler manhood.

3.80

1k+

🛠️ Men's Work 👔 Modern Masculinity 🗿 Archetypal Psychology 🚪 Rites Of Passage 🎭 Cultural Criticism

Fire in the Belly 95%

The false rites of work, war, and sex. The inward pilgrimage to a fiercer, humbler manhood.

by Sam Keen 1991

3.80

1k+ ratings

🛠️ Men's Work 👔 Modern Masculinity 🗿 Archetypal Psychology 🚪 Rites Of Passage 🎭 Cultural Criticism

The Way of Men

by Jack Donovan • 2012

Four virtues once defined manhood across every culture. Modern life has made all four obsolete.

3.80

7k+

🚨 Masculinity Crisis 🏕️ Tribalism 🤝 Male Bonding ⚔️ Honor Culture 🌲 Men's Movement

The Way of Men 94%

Four virtues once defined manhood across every culture. Modern life has made all four obsolete.

by Jack Donovan 2012

3.80

7k+ ratings

🚨 Masculinity Crisis 🏕️ Tribalism 🤝 Male Bonding ⚔️ Honor Culture 🌲 Men's Movement

Amateur

by Thomas Page McBee • 2018

A trans man's boxing match becomes a reckoning with what men are actually fighting.

4.20

4k+

🏳️‍⚧️ Transgender Memoir 📚 Masculinity Studies ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 👥 Socialization Of Men ❓ Gender Questioning

Amateur 94%

A trans man's boxing match becomes a reckoning with what men are actually fighting.

by Thomas Page McBee 2018

4.20

4k+ ratings

🏳️‍⚧️ Transgender Memoir 📚 Masculinity Studies ⚠️ Toxic Masculinity 👥 Socialization Of Men ❓ Gender Questioning

The Wall Speaks

by Jerr • 2021

A substitute father's manual: build composure, ration affection, and become the man she chases.

4.42

241

🧱 Masculine Self-Help 🧲 Attraction Dynamics 🧊 Emotional Restraint 🏋️ Behavioral Discipline 🩹 Father Wound

The Wall Speaks 94%

A substitute father's manual: build composure, ration affection, and become the man she chases.

by Jerr 2021

4.42

241 ratings

🧱 Masculine Self-Help 🧲 Attraction Dynamics 🧊 Emotional Restraint 🏋️ Behavioral Discipline 🩹 Father Wound

A World Without Men

by Aaron Clarey • 2023

Civilization runs on male labor. Remove it, and the grid fails, food stops, GDP drops by a fifth.

4.08

121

📊 Labor Economics 👷 Gender And Work 📉 Male Labor Force 🔧 Skilled Trades ⚡ Infrastructure Fragility

A World Without Men 94%

Civilization runs on male labor. Remove it, and the grid fails, food stops, GDP drops by a fifth.

by Aaron Clarey 2023

4.08

121 ratings

📊 Labor Economics 👷 Gender And Work 📉 Male Labor Force 🔧 Skilled Trades ⚡ Infrastructure Fragility

Sex Matters

by Mona Charen • 2018

Feminism won, yet women's happiness declined for fifty years. The data explains why.

3.71

331

🔍 Feminism Critique 🧬 Sex Differences 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💍 Marriage Defense 🍸 Hookup Culture

Sex Matters 94%

Feminism won, yet women's happiness declined for fifty years. The data explains why.

by Mona Charen 2018

3.71

331 ratings

🔍 Feminism Critique 🧬 Sex Differences 🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💍 Marriage Defense 🍸 Hookup Culture

If Men Could Talk

by Alon Gratch • 2001

Why men don't say what they feel, and how to read what behavior reveals instead.

3.92

162

🧠 Male Psychology 🪞 Masculine Identity 🛡️ Shame And Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy ⚥ Gender Psychology

If Men Could Talk 93%

Why men don't say what they feel, and how to read what behavior reveals instead.

by Alon Gratch 2001

3.92

162 ratings

🧠 Male Psychology 🪞 Masculine Identity 🛡️ Shame And Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy ⚥ Gender Psychology

The Boy Crisis

by Warren Farrell • 2019

Boys' suicide rate is four times higher. The missing piece: involved fathers and emotional skills.

3.91

2k+

👦 Boys' Development 👨‍👦 Fatherhood 📚 Gender Gap In Education 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🌱 ADHD Natural Treatment

The Boy Crisis 93%

Boys' suicide rate is four times higher. The missing piece: involved fathers and emotional skills.

by Warren Farrell 2019

3.91

2k+ ratings

👦 Boys' Development 👨‍👦 Fatherhood 📚 Gender Gap In Education 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🌱 ADHD Natural Treatment

Fix the System, Not the Women

by Laura Bates • 2022

Every three days in the UK, a man kills a woman. That pattern isn't a coincidence.

4.49

6k+

🏛️ Institutional Sexism 🔀 Intersectional Feminism ⚠️ Violence Against Women 🚫 Rape Culture 👆 Victim Blaming

Fix the System, Not the Women 93%

Every three days in the UK, a man kills a woman. That pattern isn't a coincidence.

by Laura Bates 2022

4.49

6k+ ratings

🏛️ Institutional Sexism 🔀 Intersectional Feminism ⚠️ Violence Against Women 🚫 Rape Culture 👆 Victim Blaming

Iron John

by Robert Bly • 1990

Modern manhood offers two broken scripts. One Grimm tale reveals a third, and it hurts.

3.91

8k+

🧠 Masculine Psychology 🏺 Jungian Psychology 📖 Fairy Tale Analysis 👨‍👦 Father-Son Bond 🧱 Emotional Boundaries

Iron John 93%

Modern manhood offers two broken scripts. One Grimm tale reveals a third, and it hurts.

by Robert Bly 1990

3.91

8k+ ratings

🧠 Masculine Psychology 🏺 Jungian Psychology 📖 Fairy Tale Analysis 👨‍👦 Father-Son Bond 🧱 Emotional Boundaries

Care for the Mental and Spiritual Health of Black Men

by Nicholas Grier • 2019

Feared and devalued daily, Black men need a framework for healing through spirit and community.

4.67

🖤 Black Men's Wellness 🫂 Community Healing 🙏 Spiritual Resilience 🕊️ Liberation Psychology 🪞 Self Psychology

Care for the Mental and Spiritual Health of Black Men Summary

Care for the Mental and Spiritual Health of Black Men 93%

Feared and devalued daily, Black men need a framework for healing through spirit and community.

by Nicholas Grier 2019

4.67

3 ratings

🖤 Black Men's Wellness 🫂 Community Healing 🙏 Spiritual Resilience 🕊️ Liberation Psychology 🪞 Self Psychology

The Rational Male – Religion

by Rollo Tomassi • 2021

Churches were quietly rebuilt around women's interests. For men, the bill is everything they have.

4.30

309

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💪 Masculinity Crisis ⚖️ Critique Of Feminism ⛪ Religious Criticism 🧬 Mating Strategies

The Rational Male – Religion 93%

Churches were quietly rebuilt around women's interests. For men, the bill is everything they have.

by Rollo Tomassi 2021

4.30

309 ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💪 Masculinity Crisis ⚖️ Critique Of Feminism ⛪ Religious Criticism 🧬 Mating Strategies

Is There Anything Good About Men?

by Roy F. Baumeister • 2016

The gender gap isn't about privilege. It's about who culture found more useful to sacrifice.

3.74

356

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 👤 Male Psychology 💘 Sexual Selection 🏋️ Masculinity Studies 🏆 Status Competition

Is There Anything Good About Men? Summary

Is There Anything Good About Men? 93%

The gender gap isn't about privilege. It's about who culture found more useful to sacrifice.

by Roy F. Baumeister 2016

3.74

356 ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 👤 Male Psychology 💘 Sexual Selection 🏋️ Masculinity Studies 🏆 Status Competition

Feminism Is for Everybody

by bell hooks • 2000

Feminism is about ending sexism, not fighting men. A primer that opens the door to everyone.

4.16

29k+

🤝 Intersectional Feminism 🗣️ Consciousness Raising 🩺 Reproductive Rights 💄 Beauty Standards 👶 Feminist Parenting

Feminism Is for Everybody 93%

Feminism is about ending sexism, not fighting men. A primer that opens the door to everyone.

by bell hooks 2000

4.16

29k+ ratings

🤝 Intersectional Feminism 🗣️ Consciousness Raising 🩺 Reproductive Rights 💄 Beauty Standards 👶 Feminist Parenting

How To Raise A Boy

by Michael C. Reichert • 2019

Boys are born as emotionally wired as girls. The parenting playbook for keeping them that way.

3.55

902

🧒 Raising Boys 💭 Emotional Development 🤝 Connection Parenting 🎭 Masculinity Norms 💪 Healthy Masculinity

How To Raise A Boy 93%

Boys are born as emotionally wired as girls. The parenting playbook for keeping them that way.

by Michael C. Reichert 2019

3.55

902 ratings

🧒 Raising Boys 💭 Emotional Development 🤝 Connection Parenting 🎭 Masculinity Norms 💪 Healthy Masculinity

Modern Misogyny

by Kristin J. Anderson • 2014

A quiet bigotry replaced overt sexism; the illusion of equality makes it harder to fight.

4.14

🔍 Subtle Sexism 🏷️ Post-Feminist Critique 🛒 Neoliberal Feminism 🎭 Double Bind ⚔️ Backlash Against Women

Modern Misogyny 93%

A quiet bigotry replaced overt sexism; the illusion of equality makes it harder to fight.

by Kristin J. Anderson 2014

4.14

92 ratings

🔍 Subtle Sexism 🏷️ Post-Feminist Critique 🛒 Neoliberal Feminism 🎭 Double Bind ⚔️ Backlash Against Women

Men's Work

by Connor Beaton • 2023

Stop self-sabotage at its source by facing the darkness you've spent a lifetime running from.

4.39

599

🌑 Shadow Work 🧠 Jungian Psychology 💪 Healthy Masculinity 🧔 Father Wound ❤️‍🩹 Emotional Regulation

Men's Work 93%

Stop self-sabotage at its source by facing the darkness you've spent a lifetime running from.

by Connor Beaton 2023

4.39

599 ratings

🌑 Shadow Work 🧠 Jungian Psychology 💪 Healthy Masculinity 🧔 Father Wound ❤️‍🩹 Emotional Regulation

She/He/They/Me

by Robyn Ryle • 2019

Pick a gender path and see where it leads: an interactive tour of the binary and beyond.

3.40

545

🏗️ Gender Construction 👥 Gender Socialization 🌍 Third Gender Traditions 🗿 Patriarchy ⚧️ Intersex Rights

She/He/They/Me 93%

Pick a gender path and see where it leads: an interactive tour of the binary and beyond.

by Robyn Ryle 2019

3.40

545 ratings

🏗️ Gender Construction 👥 Gender Socialization 🌍 Third Gender Traditions 🗿 Patriarchy ⚧️ Intersex Rights

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover

by Robert L. Moore • 1990

Four archetypes every man carries, and the map that turns boyhood chaos into generative maturity.

4.13

10k+

🧠 Masculine Psychology 🏛️ Archetypes 🌑 Shadow Work 🛡️ Initiation Rites 📚 Jungian Psychology

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover 93%

Four archetypes every man carries, and the map that turns boyhood chaos into generative maturity.

by Robert L. Moore 1990

4.13

10k+ ratings

🧠 Masculine Psychology 🏛️ Archetypes 🌑 Shadow Work 🛡️ Initiation Rites 📚 Jungian Psychology

New Fathers, Mental Health and Digital Communication

by Paul Hodkinson • 2021

One in four new fathers get depressed. Nobody screened them, so they found each other online.

📚 Fatherhood Studies 🍼 Perinatal Mental Health 💪 Masculinity Norms 🚧 Help-Seeking Barriers 💻 Online Support Communities

New Fathers, Mental Health and Digital Communication Summary

New Fathers, Mental Health and Digital Communication 92%

One in four new fathers get depressed. Nobody screened them, so they found each other online.

by Paul Hodkinson 2021

📚 Fatherhood Studies 🍼 Perinatal Mental Health 💪 Masculinity Norms 🚧 Help-Seeking Barriers 💻 Online Support Communities

Billy No-Mates

by Max Dickins • 2022

No close male friends at 30: an engaged man investigates the male friendship crisis.

4.16

463

🧱 Male Friendship 📖 Masculinity Studies 🏚️ Male Loneliness 🤝 Adult Friendship 💔 Men And Emotions

Billy No-Mates 92%

No close male friends at 30: an engaged man investigates the male friendship crisis.

by Max Dickins 2022

4.16

463 ratings

🧱 Male Friendship 📖 Masculinity Studies 🏚️ Male Loneliness 🤝 Adult Friendship 💔 Men And Emotions

Men Who Hate Women

by Laura Bates • 2020

The online pipeline that turns misogyny into mass murder, and why the platforms fuel it.

4.32

31k+

💻 Online Misogyny 📡 Online Radicalization 🔁 Algorithmic Echo Chambers ⚠️ Sexual Violence 🕸️ Extremist Subcultures

Men Who Hate Women 92%

The online pipeline that turns misogyny into mass murder, and why the platforms fuel it.

by Laura Bates 2020

4.32

31k+ ratings

💻 Online Misogyny 📡 Online Radicalization 🔁 Algorithmic Echo Chambers ⚠️ Sexual Violence 🕸️ Extremist Subcultures

Full Frontal Feminism

by Jessica Valenti • 2007

Forty percent more likely to be poor: the numbers that prove feminism isn't done with you.

3.86

8k+

✊ Third-Wave Feminism 📚 Feminist 101 🛑 Rape Culture 🪞 Body Image ⚖️ Reproductive Justice

Full Frontal Feminism 92%

Forty percent more likely to be poor: the numbers that prove feminism isn't done with you.

by Jessica Valenti 2007

3.86

8k+ ratings

✊ Third-Wave Feminism 📚 Feminist 101 🛑 Rape Culture 🪞 Body Image ⚖️ Reproductive Justice

No More Mr. Nice Guy!

by Robert A. Glover • 2000

He thinks being nice will get him love. It is getting him nothing but resentment.

4.04

25k+

🧔 Men's Self-Help 🧠 Male Psychology 🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 🦁 Men's Movement

No More Mr. Nice Guy! 92%

He thinks being nice will get him love. It is getting him nothing but resentment.

by Robert A. Glover 2000

4.04

25k+ ratings

🧔 Men's Self-Help 🧠 Male Psychology 🎭 People Pleasing 🚧 Boundary Setting 🦁 Men's Movement

Non-Toxic Masculinity

by Zachary Wagner • 2023

Purity culture delivered shame, not great sex. A path back to healthy sexuality, modeled on Christ.

4.27

412

🤍 Purity Culture ⛪ Christian Sexuality 💔 Sexual Shame 💪 Healthy Masculinity 👥 Gender Roles

Non-Toxic Masculinity 92%

Purity culture delivered shame, not great sex. A path back to healthy sexuality, modeled on Christ.

by Zachary Wagner 2023

4.27

412 ratings

🤍 Purity Culture ⛪ Christian Sexuality 💔 Sexual Shame 💪 Healthy Masculinity 👥 Gender Roles

The Big Stick

by Robert A. Glover • 2023

Why being nice repels women and keeps men stuck, and the alternative that actually works.

4.25

🧔 Men's Self-Help 🎭 People Pleasing 🦁 Modern Masculinity ⚡ Polarity Dynamics 🔥 Sexual Confidence

The Big Stick 92%

Why being nice repels women and keeps men stuck, and the alternative that actually works.

by Robert A. Glover 2023

4.25

51 ratings

🧔 Men's Self-Help 🎭 People Pleasing 🦁 Modern Masculinity ⚡ Polarity Dynamics 🔥 Sexual Confidence

The Book of Numbers

by Aaron Clarey • 2020

A man holds a 0.0007% lottery ticket for a happy marriage. The ticket costs $260,000.

4.10

627

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🗺️ Male Dating Strategy 🚫 Anti-Feminist Critique 📡 Manosphere Content 📅 Contemporary Dating

The Book of Numbers 92%

A man holds a 0.0007% lottery ticket for a happy marriage. The ticket costs $260,000.

by Aaron Clarey 2020

4.10

627 ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🗺️ Male Dating Strategy 🚫 Anti-Feminist Critique 📡 Manosphere Content 📅 Contemporary Dating

Warrior, Magician, Lover, King

by Rod Boothroyd • 2018

Four inner figures drive every man. Healing the childhood wounds that distort them.

4.30

156

🧠 Jungian Psychology 👤 Masculine Psychology ⚡ Masculine Archetypes 🌑 Shadow Work 🧒 Inner Child Work

Warrior, Magician, Lover, King 92%

Four inner figures drive every man. Healing the childhood wounds that distort them.

by Rod Boothroyd 2018

4.30

156 ratings

🧠 Jungian Psychology 👤 Masculine Psychology ⚡ Masculine Archetypes 🌑 Shadow Work 🧒 Inner Child Work

I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck

by John Kim • 2019

A profane guide to building manhood from the inside, starting with the mess you stand in.

3.88

2k+

🧔 Modern Masculinity ❤️ Men's Emotional Health 🎯 Accountability 🧘 Holistic Wellness 🗣️ Communication Skills

I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck 92%

A profane guide to building manhood from the inside, starting with the mess you stand in.

by John Kim 2019

3.88

2k+ ratings

🧔 Modern Masculinity ❤️ Men's Emotional Health 🎯 Accountability 🧘 Holistic Wellness 🗣️ Communication Skills

Off With Her Head

by Eleanor Herman • 2022

Same script, 3,000 years: how the methods for destroying powerful women never change.

3.85

3k+

🏛️ Women In Leadership 🔞 Sexual Slander 🗣️ Linguistic Sexism 👗 Appearance Policing 😡 Anger And Gender

Off With Her Head 92%

Same script, 3,000 years: how the methods for destroying powerful women never change.

by Eleanor Herman 2022

3.85

3k+ ratings

🏛️ Women In Leadership 🔞 Sexual Slander 🗣️ Linguistic Sexism 👗 Appearance Policing 😡 Anger And Gender

Absent Fathers, Lost Sons

by Guy Corneau • 1991

Masculinity isn't automatic. Without a present father, a boy builds a shell instead of a spine.

3.92

439

🕳️ Absent Fathers 🧔 Masculine Identity 🌓 Jungian Psychology 💙 Male Emotions 🔥 Male Initiation

Absent Fathers, Lost Sons 92%

Masculinity isn't automatic. Without a present father, a boy builds a shell instead of a spine.

by Guy Corneau 1991

3.92

439 ratings

🕳️ Absent Fathers 🧔 Masculine Identity 🌓 Jungian Psychology 💙 Male Emotions 🔥 Male Initiation

Asking for It

by Kate Harding • 2014

Ninety-eight percent of rape reports are true. Why does the two percent dominate every conversation?

4.37

4k+

⚠️ Rape Culture 👉 Victim Blaming 🗯️ Rape Myths 🎓 Campus Sexual Assault ⚖️ Legal System Failure

Asking for It 92%

Ninety-eight percent of rape reports are true. Why does the two percent dominate every conversation?

by Kate Harding 2014

4.37

4k+ ratings

⚠️ Rape Culture 👉 Victim Blaming 🗯️ Rape Myths 🎓 Campus Sexual Assault ⚖️ Legal System Failure

The Purity Myth

by Jessica Valenti • 2009

The virginity movement teaches shame as science, then codifies it. Real women bear the cost.

4.08

9k+

🏛️ Purity Culture ✊ Body Autonomy 💪 Toxic Masculinity 🎯 Victim Blaming ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

The Purity Myth 92%

The virginity movement teaches shame as science, then codifies it. Real women bear the cost.

by Jessica Valenti 2009

4.08

9k+ ratings

🏛️ Purity Culture ✊ Body Autonomy 💪 Toxic Masculinity 🎯 Victim Blaming ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

From the Core

by John Wineland • 2022

A masculinity built on presence and total responsibility instead of performance and conquest.

4.41

241

🧔 Conscious Masculinity 🧘 Embodied Presence 🔥 Sacred Sexuality 👬 Men's Work 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

From the Core 92%

A masculinity built on presence and total responsibility instead of performance and conquest.

by John Wineland 2022

4.41

241 ratings

🧔 Conscious Masculinity 🧘 Embodied Presence 🔥 Sacred Sexuality 👬 Men's Work 🧠 Emotional Intelligence

Mismeasure of Woman

by Carol Tavris • 1992

Men's bodies became the universal template, and a century of science mistook women for broken men.

4.07

431

🧪 Science And Sexism 🏥 Medical Sexism 👤 Male As Default 🏗️ Gender Constructs 🧠 Psychology And Gender

Mismeasure of Woman 92%

Men's bodies became the universal template, and a century of science mistook women for broken men.

by Carol Tavris 1992

4.07

431 ratings

🧪 Science And Sexism 🏥 Medical Sexism 👤 Male As Default 🏗️ Gender Constructs 🧠 Psychology And Gender

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