23 Books like Love Relations

If Love Could Think

by Alon Gratch • 2005

You keep falling for the wrong person. The real pattern is inside your head, not theirs.

3.81

179

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🚪 Fear Of Intimacy 🔁 Self-Sabotage In Love 🔥 Intimacy And Sexuality

If Love Could Think 95%

You keep falling for the wrong person. The real pattern is inside your head, not theirs.

by Alon Gratch 2005

3.81

179 ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🚪 Fear Of Intimacy 🔁 Self-Sabotage In Love 🔥 Intimacy And Sexuality

Is It Ever Just Sex?

by Darian Leader • 2023

A psychoanalyst argues sex is not about pleasure: a stage for infantile anxieties, guilt, and power.

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📚 Psychoanalytic Theory 🌍 Sex And Culture 👶 Childhood Sexuality 😈 Guilt And Desire 🚻 Heteronormativity

Is It Ever Just Sex? 95%

A psychoanalyst argues sex is not about pleasure: a stage for infantile anxieties, guilt, and power.

by Darian Leader 2023

3.37

479 ratings

📚 Psychoanalytic Theory 🌍 Sex And Culture 👶 Childhood Sexuality 😈 Guilt And Desire 🚻 Heteronormativity

Sex in Human Loving

by Eric Berne • 1970

You think you choose your partners. Three ego states and a childhood script do.

3.62

364

🧠 Transactional Analysis 🔍 Sexual Psychology 📜 Psychological Scripts 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🌱 Humanistic Psychology

Sex in Human Loving 94%

You think you choose your partners. Three ego states and a childhood script do.

by Eric Berne 1970

3.62

364 ratings

🧠 Transactional Analysis 🔍 Sexual Psychology 📜 Psychological Scripts 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🌱 Humanistic Psychology

How To Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton • 2012

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

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6k+

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

How To Think More About Sex 94%

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

by Alain de Botton 2012

3.47

6k+ ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

Freud and Beyond

by Stephen A. Mitchell • 1995

One founder, many heirs: how psychoanalysis splintered into rival schools after Freud.

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2k+

📜 History Of Psychoanalysis ⚖️ Comparative Psychoanalysis 🧸 Object Relations 🛡️ Ego Psychology 🪞 Self Psychology

Freud and Beyond 94%

One founder, many heirs: how psychoanalysis splintered into rival schools after Freud.

by Stephen A. Mitchell 1995

4.18

2k+ ratings

📜 History Of Psychoanalysis ⚖️ Comparative Psychoanalysis 🧸 Object Relations 🛡️ Ego Psychology 🪞 Self Psychology

The Erotic Mind

by Jack Morin • 1995

Your hottest turn-ons are not perversions; they are ingenious attempts to heal your oldest wounds.

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1k+

🧠 Erotic Psychology 🩹 Sexual Healing 🔮 Fantasy Exploration 💞 Intimacy And Desire 🏺 Depth Psychology

The Erotic Mind 94%

Your hottest turn-ons are not perversions; they are ingenious attempts to heal your oldest wounds.

by Jack Morin 1995

4.23

1k+ ratings

🧠 Erotic Psychology 🩹 Sexual Healing 🔮 Fantasy Exploration 💞 Intimacy And Desire 🏺 Depth Psychology

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice

by Jon G. Allen • 2008

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

4.31

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation 🩹 Trauma Treatment 🎭 Borderline Personality

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice Summary

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice 93%

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

by Jon G. Allen 2008

4.31

39 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation 🩹 Trauma Treatment 🎭 Borderline Personality

El precio de la pasión

by Gabriel Rolón • 2019

The hidden costs of passion: why the things that make us feel most alive also destroy us.

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932

🛋️ Psychoanalysis 🌌 Existential Psychology 💔 Love And Loss 🔥 Passion And Desire 🖤 Grief And Melancholia

El precio de la pasión 93%

The hidden costs of passion: why the things that make us feel most alive also destroy us.

by Gabriel Rolón 2019

3.96

932 ratings

🛋️ Psychoanalysis 🌌 Existential Psychology 💔 Love And Loss 🔥 Passion And Desire 🖤 Grief And Melancholia

by Robert A. Johnson • 1983

Love feels divine because you're projecting your soul onto another person. A myth shows the cure.

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2k+

🧠 Jungian Psychology ❤️ Psychology Of Love 👤 Anima Projection 🧩 Individuation 🕯️ Sacred Longing

We 93%

Love feels divine because you're projecting your soul onto another person. A myth shows the cure.

by Robert A. Johnson 1983

4.20

2k+ ratings

🧠 Jungian Psychology ❤️ Psychology Of Love 👤 Anima Projection 🧩 Individuation 🕯️ Sacred Longing

Love is a Story

by Robert J. Sternberg • 1998

You never chose the love story you're in. Recognize it, and the fights make sense.

3.74

271

🧠 Relationship Psychology 📖 Narrative Psychology 💭 Love Theory 🌍 Cultural Scripts 🔄 Relationship Patterns

Love is a Story 93%

You never chose the love story you're in. Recognize it, and the fights make sense.

by Robert J. Sternberg 1998

3.74

271 ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 📖 Narrative Psychology 💭 Love Theory 🌍 Cultural Scripts 🔄 Relationship Patterns

Attraction, Love, Sex

by Simon LeVay • 2023

Sexual reproduction is an evolutionary paradox. Why it persists, and everything that follows.

3.49

🔬 Human Sexuality 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 💘 Sexual Attraction 💑 Relationship Science 🌈 Sexual Orientation

Attraction, Love, Sex 93%

Sexual reproduction is an evolutionary paradox. Why it persists, and everything that follows.

by Simon LeVay 2023

3.49

43 ratings

🔬 Human Sexuality 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 💘 Sexual Attraction 💑 Relationship Science 🌈 Sexual Orientation

The Shadow of the Object

by Christopher Bollas • 1987

The knowledge formed before you had words shapes every adult relationship and mood.

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196

🧸 Object Relations Theory 🛋️ Clinical Psychoanalysis 👶 Early Infant Experience 🎨 Aesthetic Experience 🪞 Countertransference

The Shadow of the Object 93%

The knowledge formed before you had words shapes every adult relationship and mood.

by Christopher Bollas 1987

4.51

196 ratings

🧸 Object Relations Theory 🛋️ Clinical Psychoanalysis 👶 Early Infant Experience 🎨 Aesthetic Experience 🪞 Countertransference

Rozdělené Self

by R.D. Laing • 1960

Schizophrenia begins as a solution: a last defense against the terror of not feeling real.

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7k+

🧠 Existential Psychology 🩺 Clinical Psychiatry 🌊 Existential Phenomenology ✊ Anti-Psychiatry 🛡️ Psychological Defenses

Rozdělené Self 93%

Schizophrenia begins as a solution: a last defense against the terror of not feeling real.

by R.D. Laing 1960

4.11

7k+ ratings

🧠 Existential Psychology 🩺 Clinical Psychiatry 🌊 Existential Phenomenology ✊ Anti-Psychiatry 🛡️ Psychological Defenses

A General Theory of Love

by Thomas Lewis • 2000

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

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5k+

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection 🧠 Brain Evolution 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology

A General Theory of Love 93%

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

by Thomas Lewis 2000

4.10

5k+ ratings

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection 🧠 Brain Evolution 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology

The Matrix of the Mind

by Thomas H. Ogden • 1986

Inner fantasy and outer fact must stay in productive tension. Their collapse is psychic deadness.

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151

🧠 Psychoanalytic Theory 👶 Object Relations ♒ Kleinian Theory 🧸 Winnicottian Thought 🤝 Intersubjectivity

The Matrix of the Mind 93%

Inner fantasy and outer fact must stay in productive tension. Their collapse is psychic deadness.

by Thomas H. Ogden 1986

4.35

151 ratings

🧠 Psychoanalytic Theory 👶 Object Relations ♒ Kleinian Theory 🧸 Winnicottian Thought 🤝 Intersubjectivity

Why Him? Why Her?

by Helen Fisher • 2009

Brain chemistry creates four love personalities. Find yours and you'll spot your natural match.

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3k+

🧬 Personality Typing 🔬 Relationship Science 💞 Romantic Compatibility 🧠 Neurochemistry Of Love 🐒 Evolutionary Psychology

Why Him? Why Her? 93%

Brain chemistry creates four love personalities. Find yours and you'll spot your natural match.

by Helen Fisher 2009

3.87

3k+ ratings

🧬 Personality Typing 🔬 Relationship Science 💞 Romantic Compatibility 🧠 Neurochemistry Of Love 🐒 Evolutionary Psychology

A Book About Love

by Jonah Lehrer • 2016

Love is not something you stumble into; it's built through effort, memory, and meaning.

3.73

577

🧩 Attachment Theory 🔬 Relationship Science 🌟 Meaning And Purpose ❤️‍🩹 Healing Power Of Love 😊 Positive Psychology

A Book About Love 93%

Love is not something you stumble into; it's built through effort, memory, and meaning.

by Jonah Lehrer 2016

3.73

577 ratings

🧩 Attachment Theory 🔬 Relationship Science 🌟 Meaning And Purpose ❤️‍🩹 Healing Power Of Love 😊 Positive Psychology

If Men Could Talk

by Alon Gratch • 2001

Why men don't say what they feel, and how to read what behavior reveals instead.

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162

🧠 Male Psychology 🪞 Masculine Identity 🛡️ Shame And Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy ⚥ Gender Psychology

If Men Could Talk 93%

Why men don't say what they feel, and how to read what behavior reveals instead.

by Alon Gratch 2001

3.92

162 ratings

🧠 Male Psychology 🪞 Masculine Identity 🛡️ Shame And Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy ⚥ Gender Psychology

Dirty Minds

by Kayt Sukel • 2012

Romantic love activates the same brain circuits as cocaine. Heartbreak is neurological withdrawal.

3.55

447

🧠 Neuroscience Of Love 🔬 Relationship Science ⚗️ Neurochemistry 🦍 Evolutionary Psychology 💘 Mate Selection

Dirty Minds 93%

Romantic love activates the same brain circuits as cocaine. Heartbreak is neurological withdrawal.

by Kayt Sukel 2012

3.55

447 ratings

🧠 Neuroscience Of Love 🔬 Relationship Science ⚗️ Neurochemistry 🦍 Evolutionary Psychology 💘 Mate Selection

Intimacy & Desire

by David Schnarch • 2009

Desire fades when growth stops. The bedroom is just the first place it shows up.

4.21

466

🔥 Sexual Desire 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧱 Differentiation 💘 Rekindling Desire 🕸️ Family Systems

Intimacy & Desire 93%

Desire fades when growth stops. The bedroom is just the first place it shows up.

by David Schnarch 2009

4.21

466 ratings

🔥 Sexual Desire 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧱 Differentiation 💘 Rekindling Desire 🕸️ Family Systems

Your Brain on Sex

by Stanley Siegel • 2011

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

3.97

122

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

Your Brain on Sex 93%

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

by Stanley Siegel 2011

3.97

122 ratings

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

John Bowlby and Attachment Theory

by Jeremy Holmes • 1993

Why a child's bond with a caregiver is a biological drive, not a learned habit.

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🧸 Attachment Theory 👶 Child Development 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🖤 Grief And Loss 🛋️ Therapeutic Relationship

John Bowlby and Attachment Theory Summary

John Bowlby and Attachment Theory 93%

Why a child's bond with a caregiver is a biological drive, not a learned habit.

by Jeremy Holmes 1993

4.21

219 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 👶 Child Development 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🖤 Grief And Loss 🛋️ Therapeutic Relationship

The Psychology of Twilight

by E. David Klonsky • 2011

Your brain picked Team Edward or Team Jacob long before you did. The reasons aren't romantic.

4.52

3k+

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧠 Pop Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧪 Dopamine And Desire 🎬 Pop Culture Analysis

The Psychology of Twilight 93%

Your brain picked Team Edward or Team Jacob long before you did. The reasons aren't romantic.

by E. David Klonsky 2011

4.52

3k+ ratings

🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🧠 Pop Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧪 Dopamine And Desire 🎬 Pop Culture Analysis

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